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Whitney Goodman

Keeping It Real in a World Obsessed with Being Happy

4.4 (551 ratings)
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Toxic Positivity by Whitney Goodman highlights the harmful effects of overemphasizing positive thinking. It discusses the importance of embracing all emotions, even negative ones, in order to truly heal and grow.

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    Even with the best of intentions, positivity can become toxic.

    Imagine this. You’ve just found out that you’ve lost your job. You’re upset – freaking out, even – and have no idea what to do next. 

    Maybe a chat with a friend will make you feel better. You want support and validation for the way you’re feeling. Your friend will know just what to say. So you tell them – “I’ve lost my job.” And what does your friend say? “Well, it could be worse. And at least you’ll have lots of spare time now. Think of it as a learning experience!”

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    • Introduction

    • 1

      Even with the best of intentions, positivity can become toxic.

    • 2

      When someone is struggling, the last thing they need is pressure to “be positive.”

    • 3

      Toxic positivity is deeply ingrained in US society.

    • 4

      Forcing people to be positive actually makes them unhappy.

    • 5

      Feel your feelings, practice radical acceptance, and stop chasing happiness.

    • 6

      To dismantle oppressive societal structures, we need to challenge the culture of toxic positivity.

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    What is Toxic Positivity about?

    Toxic Positivity (2022) is an eye-opening appraisal of positivity culture in Western society. It outlines the many ways toxic positivity harms individuals and communities, and offers practical suggestions for helping ourselves and others.

    Toxic Positivity Review

    Toxic Positivity (2021) by Whitney Goodman sheds light on the detrimental effects of overemphasizing positivity. Here's why this book is worth reading:

    • Exploring the hidden dangers of toxic positivity, the book encourages readers to examine and rethink their approach to emotions and self-care.
    • With thought-provoking examples and expert insights, it offers practical tools to navigate difficult emotions authentically and develop resilience.
    • Through its candid exploration of society's pressures to be happy all the time, the book breaks the stereotypes and fosters a more balanced perspective.

    Who should read Toxic Positivity?

    • Happiness-seekers
    • People who want to support their loved ones in difficult times
    • Anyone who cringes at expressions like “good vibes” and “just think positive”

    About the Author

    Whitney Goodman is a licensed psychotherapist who runs a private therapy practice in Miami. Her popular Instagram account @sitwithwhit has nearly half a million followers. Toxic Positivity is her first book

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    What is the main message of Toxic Positivity?

    Toxic Positivity explores the harmful effects of excessive positivity and encourages embracing all emotions.

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    Is Toxic Positivity a good book? Is it worth reading?

    Toxic Positivity is a thought-provoking read, shedding light on the negative aspects of excessive positivity.

    Who is the author of Toxic Positivity?

    Whitney Goodman is the author of Toxic Positivity.

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