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Blink 3 of 8 - The 5 AM Club
by Robin Sharma
Fun Home is an autobiographical graphic novel by Alison Bechdel that explores her coming-of-age and her complex relationship with her father, revealing secrets, struggles, and the transformative power of self-discovery.
In Fun Home, Alison Bechdel unfolds her childhood, spent in the Gothic Revival mansion in Pennsylvania, characterized by its obsessive compulsive and artistic father, who was a high school English teacher, a funeral home director, and a closeted homosexual. Bechdel's relationship with her father is the spine of the story, who unexpectedly dies when she is at college, leaving her with unanswered questions.
Initially, Bechdel presents her father as a stern, intellectual figure, obsessed with appearance and symbolism. His compulsive restoration of their home mirrors his struggle to maintain a façade, concealing his true self. Simultaneously, it mirrors Bechdel's struggle to understand her own sexuality. Disconnected, they live in the same world, consumed by their artistic passions, yet functioning in their individual plains.
As Bechdel grows older, she starts understanding her own sexuality and starts identifying as a lesbian. Disclosing her identity to her parents, she receives a pivotal letter from her mother, revealing her father's hidden homosexual encounters and affairs with his male students. This revelation sparks a connection between her and her father as they both grapple with their identities in a heteronormative society.
In a bizarre twist, shortly after her coming out, Bechdel’s father dies in an accident, which she theorizes was likely a suicide. This tragic event leaves her navigating through her grief, her complex relationship with him, and the unsaid parallels between their lives. Through her journey, she begins to view her father under a new light, as a trapped man unable to openly express his identity, unlike herself.
The discovery of their shared homosexuality provides Bechdel with an unexpected connection to her father. She explores this parallel through various literary works, a passion they also shared, giving the reader insight into her intellectual and affective responses to her father's concealed life. The interweaving of literature and her narrative build a poignant and thoughtful story, granting an understanding of the burden of their double lives.
Yet, despite these parallels, her father's untimely death solidifies the difference in their journey. Bechdel is left to probe into her father's life in an attempt to better understand him. In deciphering his life and death, she recognizes her own freedom in her ability to live openly and authentically, despite societal norms and stigmas.
In Fun Home, Bechdel expands the boundaries of the graphic memoir by incorporating both visual and literary narratives. Her careful cross-hatching and minute attention to detail reflect her effort to construct a panoramic view of her father's life and their relationship. Displaying the intricate nature of family bonds and the paradoxes within individual's lives, the memoir provides a profound reflection on identity, closeted existence, and the power of art to express life's complexities.
In the end, Bechdel leaves the readers contemplating her unique 'tragicomic' memoir. Humor and irony touch the pages as life reflects on itself; A lesbian daughter and a gay father, living in the same home, unaware of their shared identity, and a funeral home director, obsessed with the façade of life, yet unable to live his own. These powerful ironies make Fun Home a deeply moving and thought-provoking read.
Fun Home is a poignant memoir by Alison Bechdel that explores her complex relationship with her father who was a closeted gay man. Through rich illustrations and honest storytelling, Bechdel delves into themes of identity, sexuality, and family dynamics, painting a vivid picture of her childhood and coming to terms with her own sexuality.
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by Robin Sharma