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Jessica Joelle Alexander, Iben Sandahl
What the Happiest People in the World Know About Raising Confident, Capable Kids
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The Danish Way of Parenting proposes a parenting model focused on empathy, authenticity, and play. It offers insights on fostering resilience and happiness in children through a balanced, nurturing approach deeply rooted in Danish culture.
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P is for Parent
When was the last time you heard a parent simply say their child was going to “play” on the weekend? Not play soccer, attend ballet class, or participate in an organized playdate – just play. Over the past fifty years in the United States, unstructured playtime has dramatically decreased, replaced by screen time, organized activities, and heightened parental caution. While ballet recitals and sports medals provide tangible evidence of achievement, we might be overlooking something far more valuable: the development of resilience, which has been identified as one of the most crucial factors for adult success and mental health.
Denmark recognized the importance of play early on. In 1871, visionaries Niels and Erna Juel-Hansen established the first play-based educational pedagogy, a philosophy that continues to shape Danish education today. Danish children under ten finish school at 2:00 p.m. and enter skolefritidsordning (free time school), where they engage in unstructured play. This approach aligns with the concept of proximal development, where children naturally push themselves to achieve tasks just beyond their current abilities – like a child determined to master the monkey bars at their own pace.
The evolutionary significance of play is striking. Studies of young chimps reveal that “stressful” activities like chase games actually help their brains better manage stress later in life. Similarly, human children develop crucial problem-solving skills through free play, whether navigating social conflicts or testing physical limits. During these experiences, children inherently calibrate appropriate levels of challenge, managing both physical and social stressors on their own terms.
This philosophy is embodied in Denmark’s most successful toy export, LEGO (from leg godt, Danish for “play well”), which began as simple blocks encouraging open-ended creativity. Parents can foster this kind of meaningful play by creating enriching environments without micromanaging: provide diverse, sensory-stimulating materials, allow mixed-age play, and resist the urge to intervene when children face manageable risks or conflicts. The goal isn’t to orchestrate every moment but to create space for exploration and natural learning – trusting that children will develop crucial life skills through the freedom to play on their own terms.
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What is The Danish Way of Parenting about?
The Danish Way of Parenting (2014) explores the core principles of Danish parenting that contribute to Denmark’s status as the happiest country in the world and its success in raising well-adjusted children. It offers practical guidance for parents worldwide on how to implement proven Danish parenting strategies, promising to help create happier, more confident children through methods that have been successful in Denmark for generations.
Who should read The Danish Way of Parenting?
- New parents ready to create positive habits from day one
- Established parents looking for a calmer, gentler approach
- Carers and educators seeking playful development strategies that work
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