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How to Start Conversations that Get Results
The First Minute by Chris Fenning teaches techniques for starting conversations clearly and effectively. It offers actionable advice to improve communication in professional settings, ensuring we convey messages concisely right from the start.
Picture this. You walk into a meeting for which you have important updates that could reshape the course of a project. You start speaking, but within minutes, your audience looks confused, asking for clarifications on points you haven't even reached yet. What went wrong? The reason could very likely be poor framing. Now, consider the power of starting that same meeting by succinctly stating the project name, your need for a decision, and the immediate issue at hand – all within the first fifteen seconds. This is framing, and it’s a simple yet powerful tool to steer your communications toward success.
Framing should be part of every form of communication, whether it’s a quick corridor chat or a formal presentation. It’s made up of three key components: context, intent, and key message. First, context sets the stage by informing your audience about the subject at hand. This might be as straightforward as naming the project or topic you’re discussing. It’s about aligning your audience’s focus with yours right from the start.
Next comes intent. Here, you clarify what you expect from the audience following your communication. Are you looking for input, seeking a decision, or simply informing them of a change? Specifying your intent helps your listeners understand how to process and respond to the information you’re providing. For instance, if you need to push a deadline, stating this intent up front can prepare your audience for the implications of this shift, ensuring everyone listens with the appropriate mindset.
The third component, the key message, is arguably the most significant. This is the core of your communication – the essential piece of information that your audience needs to know. It should be delivered concisely and early in the conversation to grab attention and direct focus. For example, if a critical milestone is going to be missed, leading with this fact sets a clear agenda for the ensuing discussion.
Effective framing clarifies and enhances communication. By introducing these three elements at the beginning of your interaction, you make your communication efforts more efficient and effective. This method reduces the need for back-and-forth clarification, saves time, and minimizes the risk of misunderstandings.
Let’s apply these concepts. Suppose you need to update your team on several ongoing projects. Start by stating, “I have updates on three projects that require different actions.” Then, break down your communication by framing each project separately within the conversation. For example, “First, regarding Project X, we need to decide on the proposed budget increase today.” This keeps your messages distinct and your team engaged, as they will know exactly what each topic entails and what’s expected of them.
Mastering the art of framing can transform your interactions, making every minute count. It allows you to control the narrative, ensures your audience is with you every step of the way, and dramatically increases the efficiency of your communications. Start practicing this technique in your next conversation, and notice the immediate improvement in clarity and engagement.
But that’s just the beginning. In the next section you’ll learn how to use structured summaries to keep your audience on track.
The First Minute (2020) explores effective techniques for mastering the crucial initial moments of communication, aiming to enhance the impact of spoken interactions. It offers strategies to organize thoughts and deliver messages with clarity and confidence, ensuring that speakers can engage and persuade their audiences from the start.
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