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Raising Girls Who Like Themselves summary
Kasey Edwards, Christopher Scanlon
In a world that tells them they're flawed
19 mins
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Raising Girls Who Like Themselves offers practical guidance for nurturing confident and resilient daughters. Authors Kasey Edwards and Christopher Scanlon provide actionable strategies to help girls embrace their strengths and develop a healthy self-image.
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Develop a power perspective
Raising a girl with a strong sense of self-worth often comes down to helping her see the world through a power perspective. This mindset shows up in two different ways: some kids think “I can shape what happens to me,” while others feel “things just happen to me.”
Take the example of two girls heading to school camp: one is nervous, clinging to her parents, while the other is excitedly boarding the bus. The difference? The confident girl knows she can handle new situations, even if they’re tough or unfamiliar.
Some children naturally have this power perspective. Others may be more prone to anxiety or have faced hardships that make it harder to trust in themselves. Fortunately, this perspective can be taught and strengthened. Start by focusing on small, practical steps.
For example, if your daughter receives an unwanted gift, gently shift her attention to what went well – like the fun she had at her party or other presents she enjoyed. This focus on the positive encourages her to see the good in situations, a skill that builds resilience.
Building positive thinking also supports this sense of control. After school, try asking about something good that happened in her day. Talk about why it was good and how she played a part in making it happen. This simple practice helps her see herself as someone who makes good things happen in her own life.
When you give her praise, be thoughtful about it. Instead of vaguely saying, “Great drawing!” ask, “Do you like it?” This shows her that her opinion of her own work matters more than others’. It helps her build confidence from within rather than always seeking external approval.
When things get tough, help her change thoughts like “I’ll never be good at math” to “I’m practicing math, and it’s tough, but I’m improving.” Celebrate her efforts to rise after a fall, like, “You got back up – well done!” Lastly, encourage directness in asking for what she needs. Instead of vague hints like “I’m thirsty,” encourage her to ask, “Can I have a glass of water?”
These small steps add up to something big – they help raise a girl who approaches life with confidence, resilience, and a healthy self-worth.
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What is Raising Girls Who Like Themselves about?
Raising Girls Who Like Themselves (2021) is a practical, research-backed guide for parents aiming to nurture happy, confident daughters who can thrive in a world that often undermines their self-worth. By fostering key traits such as body confidence, independence, and resilience, it empowers girls to become self-assured, healthy, and secure.
Who should read Raising Girls Who Like Themselves?
- Parents who want to raise resilient, optimistic daughters
- Teachers who want to support girls mental health and self-esteem
- Caregivers who want practical strategies for cultivating confidence in girls
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