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Blink 3 of 8 - The 5 AM Club
by Robin Sharma
A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire
The Way of the Superior Man challenges men to embrace their masculinity and purpose in life. It encourages balance between achieving greatness and nurturing relationships, offering insights into personal growth and conscious living.
What stands between a man and his full potential? In other words, what holds him back in life? For many, the answer lies in waiting – waiting for a tomorrow that never comes. The truth is, many men fail to find their purpose because they convince themselves that the right time is always just around the corner.
Masculinity is intertwined with the concept of duty. To be a man has often meant – and for many men still means – doing what’s necessary. This ideal can inspire men to do the right thing even when it’s difficult and unpleasant. But it can also function as an alibi for inaction.
It’s easy, after all, to talk yourself into putting off life-altering projects when you’re raising a family, paying down a mortgage, or building a career. And so you wait for the day when all the hard stuff is finally done. But that’s not how it works. Sure, at some point you’ll have more financial security and the kids will be in college, but there’s always another hurdle to clear. Put differently, if you fall into this way of thinking, you’ll always find another good reason to postpone action. In the end, it’s a dodge. An excuse.
This hard truth should be liberating. Obligations never stopped a man who was truly set on something. Great inventions and ideas and works of art have taken shape in the moments men snatched for themselves between fixing roofs, taking their kids to school, or earning money.
So what is it that you want to do? Better yet, what is it that you feel, in the deepest part of your being, that you need to do? If you can answer that question sincerely, you will discover the thing that animated such men: a purpose. And once you have that, you can get to work.
All you have to do is set aside one hour each day to do what you love doing. Fulfill your obligations, do your duty, raise your kids, pay your bills, fix the leak in your roof – do all the things you must do. But find that single hour too.
Be forewarned, though: it’s possible that you’ll realize you don’t want to pursue the purpose you believed was yours. Or that you can’t. The future you imagined for yourself might turn out to have been an idle fantasy. That can be a bitter blow, but it’s ultimately a good thing: it’s by cutting down false ideals that you clear the ground to find your true calling.
The Way of the Superior Man (1997) is a spiritual guide for men seeking a life of integrity, authenticity, and freedom. Full of insights into men’s careers, their families, and the women they love (and sometimes struggle against), it empowers readers to discover more fulfilling and meaningful ways of living.
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