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Jodi Wellman

How to Make It to the End with No Regrets

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    Living astonishingly

    If you want to live a full life, a key starting point is identifying what makes you feel energized, engaged, and like your most authentic self. One powerful exercise is to make a list of the activities, relationships, places, and experiences that spark genuine joy and aliveness in you. Maybe it’s losing yourself in an art project, hiking in nature, or having deep conversations with loved ones. First, identify these things – and second, think about how you can incorporate them into your daily and monthly routines.

    It’s also crucial to confront what feels stagnant or empty. This means asking yourself hard questions like, “When was the last time I felt fully engaged with life? Are there ways in which I’ve somehow given up on really living?” Grappling with tough questions like these can fuel positive change.

    Of course, an astonishing life will look different for everyone. It’s about what’s meaningful and true to you. Consider keeping a diary for a period of time to audit how you spend your days. Note what you want more of, what you’d like less of, and how you might boost your sense of purpose. It’s important to keep paying attention – to stay awake as your life unfolds. Deliberate reflection can help you here.

    Feeling brave? Here’s an exercise you can try to clarify what really matters: write your own obituary. Imagine you’ve reached the end of your life. What would you want the summary of your time on Earth to reflect? What accomplishments, relationships, or qualities would make you feel most proud? Jot down the highlights you’d love to be remembered for. Perhaps it’s the incredible adventures you went on, the way you made people feel loved and accepted, or the positive impact you had. Don’t hold back – dream big! Then, work backward. What do you need to start doing, or do differently, to make this vision a reality? Let your ideal obituary serve as a compass, guiding your choices and priorities moving forward.

    Here’s another powerful exercise. Imagine you’re 80 or 90 years old, reflecting back on your life as it is now. What words of wisdom would your elder self lovingly offer? Would they urge you to stress less about the little things, or conversely, to sweat the details a bit more? Would they encourage you to be bolder in going after your dreams, or to focus more on appreciating what you already have? Would they advise you to nurture certain relationships, pursue a passion you’ve been neglecting, or make your well-being a higher priority? 

    Really step into the shoes of your wisest elder self, and view your current circumstances through their compassionate yet discerning eyes. Jot down any insights, and consider how you might put their advice into practice, starting today. This simple mental shift in perspective can cut through the noise and clarify what truly matters in the big picture. 

    In a world where it’s all too easy to drift, these tools can help you wake up before it’s too late.

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    What is You Only Die Once about?

    You Only Die Once (2023) is a motivational guide that encourages people to make the most of their remaining time on Earth. Drawing from positive psychology principles, it offers practical advice and inspiring stories to help you pursue your passions, find meaning, and live life to the fullest.

    Who should read You Only Die Once?

    • People seeking to boost their sense of passion, purpose, and engagement
    • Those nearing the end of life who want to make the most of their remaining time
    • Anyone interested in personal growth, self-reflection, and living intentionally

    About the Author

    Jodi Wellman is a former corporate executive turned executive coach. She has a master’s degree in applied positive psychology from the University of Pennsylvania, where she teaches and trains in the Penn Resilience Program. As a certified coach, she has worked with clients such as American Express, Fidelity, and BMW, and runs her own business, Four Thousand Mondays.

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