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The Big Disconnect
Protecting Childhood and Family Relationships in the Digital Age
The Big Disconnect (2013) is about the current generation of babies, toddlers and children growing up in the digital world. Digital media, from online games to social networking sites, have a profound impact on a child’s development, both intellectually and socially. These blinks outline the reasons why, and what parents can do to try to keep their children safe from these developmental hindrances.
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Catherine Steiner Adair, EdD, is a clinical psychologist who specializes in child and family therapy. She’s also an instructor at Harvard Medical School and a consultant for a number of schools.
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The Big Disconnect
Protecting Childhood and Family Relationships in the Digital Age
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The Big Disconnect (2013) is about the current generation of babies, toddlers and children growing up in the digital world. Digital media, from online games to social networking sites, have a profound impact on a child’s development, both intellectually and socially. These blinks outline the reasons why, and what parents can do to try to keep their children safe from these developmental hindrances.
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Excessive exposure to digital media interferes with a child’s development.
If you’ve ever used a chat room, message board or social media site, you’ve probably been insulted by a stranger. These digital interactions aren’t meaningless: they have an impact on our socialization, especially children’s.
Children develop empathy by interacting with other people. According to the psychiatrist Dan Siegel, children aren’t born with empathy: they develop it as they mature. They build social skills and learn to understand each other’s emotions as they fight, play and make friends.
Spending a lot of time online disrupts this process. And if children spend too much time in the digital world, it can actually decrease their empathy.
A group of Stanford researchers did over 70 studies on this phenomenon with college students. They did a systematic review of their studies based on standard empathy tests and found that, between 1979 and 2009, empathy in US college students decreased by 40 percent.
The decline was particularly strong in the last ten years of that time frame, and technology was pinpointed as one of the main causes.
Overexposure to digital media doesn’t only make people less empathetic. The fast pace of the digital world also makes it harder for children to concentrate.
In 2006, the Kaiser Family Foundation conducted a survey of teenagers and found that those who did their homework on the computer were far less focused on their work. In fact, they spent at least two-thirds of their time doing something else entirely.
Digital media has a big impact on a child’s development. It’s making it harder for children to focus in school, and the rude comments you’ve seen online probably come from young people whose empathy has been stunted.
Key ideas in this title
- Excessive exposure to digital media interferes with a child’s development.
- Babies suffer when their parents are distracted by their devices.
- Preschoolers need to play with each other to develop critical social skills.
- Children need protection from harmful media as they get older.
- Social media and the internet can make adolescence even more complicated.
- Digital technology makes it harder for some teenagers to develop healthy identities and relationships.
- Parents have to earn their children’s trust so they come to them with their media problems.
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