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Mark Divine

7 Leadership Commitments That Forge Elite Teams

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In 'Staring Down the Wolf' by Mark Divine, the retired Navy Seal offers tactical advice on how to overcome the fear and uncertainty that most leaders face. He draws on his personal experience and training as well as ancient warrior traditions to teach effective leadership strategies.

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    Commit to courage, learn to embrace risk, and train hard.

    The Navy SEALs have an acronym to describe the world – VUCA – “volatile, uncertain, complex, and ambiguous.” Inside each person are two wolves that navigate this VUCA world: the fear wolf of the mind and the courage wolf of the heart.

    The fear wolf encapsulates all the things that hold you back emotionally – your fears, negative biases, and destructive patterns. This fear wolf also holds you back from accomplishing your goals. If you’ve ever felt stuck, chances are you needed to confront the wolf to set yourself free. 

    This confrontation is called “staring down the wolf.” It’s only by boldly facing your negative patterns and behaviors that you can lessen their impact, blow past your fear, and begin to feed your positive courage wolf.

    The key message here is: Commit to courage, learn to embrace risk, and train hard.

    As a former Navy SEAL, Mark Divine knows what it is to be dropped into situations where courage could mean the difference between life and death. But how did he summon his courage? By training – the right way. That involved adopting a risk-tolerant mindset that made him ready for anything.

    Usually, our fear kicks in during stressful situations. That fear tells us to play it safe. Sometimes, though, playing it safe is the opposite of what’s needed – as demonstrated by a UN peacekeeping force in Mogadishu, Somalia. 

    In October 1993, a helicopter went down, stranding two pilots amid gunfire between hundreds of Somali forces. The Pakistani peacekeeping forces decided to wait for backup before acting, but the American forces knew that time was of the essence. Instead of allowing fear of combat to hold them back, they took a calculated risk to face gunfire and rescue the pilots. Their courage motivated the Pakistani forces to join, and together they helped the pilots escape.

    Now, that was a risk so spectacular that it inspired an Oscar-winning movie, Black Hawk Down. But the same lessons apply for your life. The SEALs embrace risk because of their intense training, which recreates real-life battle situations and physically and mentally prepares them for just about anything. In fact, they’re primed to stare down their fear wolves when under pressure. 

    With their fear wolves silenced, they can then make informed decisions. They focus on the mission and put it above everything else. In this case, the mission was to rescue the pilots. The SEAL unit’s core principle, “no man left behind,” drove them to take the risk. So, ask yourself, what risks do you need to train for – and what’s going to drive your courage when it’s needed most.

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    What is Staring Down the Wolf about?

    Staring Down the Wolf (2020) is a leadership guide to forging great teams in the face of adversity. Drawing upon the teachings of the Navy SEALs, one of the world’s most elite military units, it shows what it takes to command an elite team.

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    Staring Down the Wolf by Mark Divine (2020) is an insightful guide that empowers readers with strategies to conquer challenges and achieve success. Here's why this book is a must-read:

    • Packed with practical tools and exercises, it equips readers with actionable methods to develop mental toughness and resilience.
    • Combining wisdom from ancient warrior traditions with modern leadership principles, the book offers a unique approach to personal and professional growth.
    • Through compelling real-life stories and practical advice, the book provides a captivating narrative that keeps readers engaged throughout their journey.

    Who should read Staring Down the Wolf?

    • Leaders seeking to align and strengthen their teams
    • Military aficionados
    • Anyone who needs inspiration to push past their plateau

    About the Author

    Mark Divine is a former Navy SEAL who has trained thousands of aspiring Navy SEALs. He owns and runs the SEALFIT Training Center in San Diego, California, where he helps athletes, military professionals, SWAT teams, first responders, SOF candidates, and everyday people build strength and character.

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