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by Robin Sharma
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Courtney Carver
Rest More, Stress Less, and Live the Life You Actually Want
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Gentle by Courtney Carver encourages embracing simplicity and intentionality in daily life. It guides us through minimizing mental and physical clutter to foster personal growth, well-being, and authentic connections, promoting a balanced, fulfilling lifestyle.
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The rest revolution
Think about your day yesterday. How many moments did you spend doing absolutely nothing? If you’re like most people, the answer might be very few – or even none at all. We’ve become so accustomed to constant motion that stillness feels strange.
The art of being, instead of doing, has become obscured in modern life. When you try to rest or do nothing, you might notice an immediate discomfort creeping in. Your mind races through your to-do list. Your fingers itch to reach for your phone. The very act of pausing feels somehow wasteful or indulgent.
It’s time to challenge the deeply ingrained belief that resting comes last, once everything is complete, because doing nothing might actually be the most productive thing you can do for yourself. This isn’t just a nice idea – it’s backed by health experts who consistently find that adults need at least seven hours of sleep each night for optimal functioning. When you regularly fall short of this threshold, your body doesn’t adjust. In fact, it suffers in ways that accumulate over time.
Think about how you feel after a day packed with back-to-back meetings and commitments. Now compare that to how you feel after taking a stroll or allowing yourself an unhurried Saturday afternoon. The difference isn’t just in your energy levels. It shows up in how you treat others and yourself.
So, what’s the solution?
Creating margins in your life, or little pockets of unscheduled time between activities, can give you room to breathe when surprises inevitably arise. Without margins, every unexpected event becomes a crisis that explodes your day and drains your reserves. But with margins, these same events become manageable parts of your day.
These margins do more than just make space for surprises. They invite you to remember yourself. In those moments of nothing, you reconnect with who you are beneath all of the doing. You process emotions that might otherwise remain buried, along with the little stresses of your day. In the margins, you can hear the quiet voice of your heart that gets drowned out by the noise of constant activity.
The rest revolution begins with giving yourself permission to create space in your calendar, your to-do list, and your life. This doesn’t mean abandoning your responsibilities, but rather approaching them from a place of greater clarity and presence. When you intentionally do less, you bring more to everything you undertake.
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What is Gentle about?
Gentle (2025) offers a counterintuitive solution to the contemporary culture of exhaustion by reclaiming rest as essential, rather than a reward for productivity. It provides practical, actionable strategies for breaking the cycle of busyness, and challenging the glorification of hustle, while enhancing well-being and effectiveness.
Who should read Gentle?
- Busy professionals experiencing – or on the verge of – burnout
- Caregivers who regularly prioritize the needs of others
- Anyone who has normalized chronic fatigue as “just how life is”
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