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Blink 3 of 8 - The 5 AM Club
by Robin Sharma
How to Thrive in a World of Constant Chaos (and Why Resilience Alone Isn’t Enough)
Shatterproof by Tasha Eurich delves into cultivating resilience by understanding emotional triggers, fostering self-awareness, and embracing adaptability. It provides actionable strategies to thrive in the face of adversity and overcome personal and professional challenges.
Whether you are aware of it or not, since about 2008 you’ve been living through an age of chaos. From digital disruption to economic volatility, violent conflicts, health crises, and climate disasters, the world seems determined to test every limit. Our human ancestors, of course, experienced plenty of stress – being chased by a hungry lion certainly seems more stressful than a day at the office. But ancient humans knew extreme stress as something fleeting: hungry lions don’t stick around to menace you all day, every day.
In this age, plenty of us have become “stressed-out strivers” – those goal-oriented souls seeking success while feeling exhausted by compounding challenges across work, relationships, health, and community. You might recognize yourself in this description. The traditional advice to just “be resilient” may no longer serve you in our increasingly chaotic landscape.
Science reveals three evolutionary design flaws that make perpetual change particularly challenging for humans. First, our brains possess a bad things bias – we remember negative experiences four times more vividly than positive ones. Negative experiences stick to us like glue, while positive moments slide off like Teflon. This explains why a single traumatic event can leave a permanent mark, while the joy of good days fades fast.
Second, our bodies were designed for short bursts of stress, not the constant cortisol flood triggered by endless emails, news alerts, and social media notifications. This cortisol conundrum keeps the stress response activated almost continuously, making it difficult to reset. Your body cannot distinguish between a predator and a pressing deadline – both trigger the same physiological reactions.
Third, we face compound extremes more frequently now – multiple disruptions occurring simultaneously, magnified by our interconnected world. Small shifts can trigger wide-reaching phase transitions, like market crashes or social movements that rapidly transform society.
These realities expose the limits of resilience as a coping strategy. While bouncing back has helped generations survive hardship, resilience alone cannot sustain us through constant chaos. The myth that endless endurance is the only path through difficult times leads to grit gaslighting – the insidious belief that if you are struggling, you just need more willpower.
When you find yourself approaching your resilience ceiling – that point where your coping strategies are starting to fail – consider this a signal, rather than a personal failure. Your feelings of exhaustion, burnout, and overwhelm are not weaknesses, but important indicators that you need to take a different approach.
Begin to observe your own relationship to resilience. Notice when you demand endless endurance from yourself. Pay attention to moments when pushing through creates more stress than relief. Start viewing your stress response not as something to overcome, but as valuable information signaling the need for a more sustainable approach.
Shatterproof (2025) offers a groundbreaking alternative to traditional ideas about resilience, revealing why mere “bouncing back” from difficulties is not sufficient or sustainable. It provides a practical, four-step roadmap for transforming life’s challenges into opportunities for authentic growth, and fulfilling one’s core psychological needs to emerge stronger than before.
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