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Philip Houston, Michael Floyd, Susan Carnicero and Don Tennant
Former CIA Officers Teach You How to Detect Deception
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Spy the Lie by Philip Houston, Michael Floyd, Susan Carnicero and Don Tennant is about how to detect deception using behavior-based interviewing methods. The book offers real-life examples and practical techniques that can help readers improve their communication skills and identify lies, whether for personal or professional reasons.
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Communication is hard to interpret because it is complex and non-universal.
When was the last time you told a lie? It probably wasn’t too long ago. In fact, we all lie about ten to twenty times a day! Despite that, we’re incredibly bad at recognizing other people’s lies. How can that be?
One reason we often fail to detect lies has to do with the fact that it’s difficult for us to precisely interpret what others are communicating to us – for a number of reasons.
First, we find it hard to concentrate on verbal and nonverbal communication simultaneously.
When we communicate with one another, we employ two kinds of communication: verbal, i.e., with our speech, as well as non-verbal, i.e., using body language.
However, we find it hard to discern the communicative styles of others, since our perception of the world constantly teeters between being dominated by the visual or by the auditory.
Thus, when we are communicating with someone, we focus our energy either on listening closely to what they say or watching for clues in their body language that might give us insight into their intentions or motivations.
Unfortunately, however, we aren’t very good at doing both simultaneously, and we therefore often miss crucial elements of people’s communication.
Secondly, communication is difficult to interpret because single behaviors can actually have many causes and be interpreted in more than one way.
What does it mean, for example, when your conversation partner breaks eye contact with you? You might suspect that they’re unable to look you in the eye because they’re deceiving you. Yet again, it could also simply be that they have bad manners, or lack the self-esteem, confidence or social sophistication required to hold eye contact.
So how do you know which it is? Well, you can’t.
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What is Spy the Lie about?
Spy the Lie reveals the typical strategies that liars use to try to deceive you, as well as the tools to help you detect them. This book draws on field-tested methods for lie detection developed by former CIA officers, which helps to spot the signs of a lie and ask the right questions to uncover the truth.
Spy the Lie Review
Spy the Lie (2012) reveals the art and science behind detecting deception and uncovering the truth. Here's why this book is worth reading:
- With its real-life experiences from the authors, who are former CIA officers, the book offers an inside look into the world of deception detection.
- It provides readers with practical techniques and strategies to recognize deception cues and question suspects effectively.
- The book's engaging stories and examples make it an interesting and accessible guide to understanding human behavior and uncovering the truth.
Best quote from Spy the Lie
People believe lies not because they have to, but because they want to. – Malcolm Muggeridge
—Philip Houston, Michael Floyd, Susan Carnicero and Don Tennant
Who should read Spy the Lie?
- Anyone who conducts interviews
- Anyone who works in sales, marketing or law enforcement
- Anyone interested in communication
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What is the main message of Spy the Lie?
Spy the Lie reveals the techniques used by CIA officers to detect deception and uncover the truth.
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Is Spy the Lie a good book? Is it worth reading?
Spy the Lie is a fascinating book that provides valuable insights into the world of deception detection. It's definitely worth reading.
Who is the author of Spy the Lie?
Spy the Lie is written by Philip Houston, Michael Floyd, Susan Carnicero, and Don Tennant.
What to read after Spy the Lie?
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