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by Robin Sharma
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Terry Szuplat
Find Your Voice, Speak Your Mind, Inspire Any Audience
18 mins
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Say It Well guides us in mastering the art of effective communication. Through practical techniques and insightful strategies, Terry Szuplat helps us refine our messaging to connect authentically and deliver impactful, clear, and persuasive presentations.
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Finding your voice
What lies at the heart of effective public speaking? For former US President Barack Obama, the answer to that question is having a clear understanding of who you are and what you believe. In other words, effective speaking is tied to finding your own voice.
Obama’s understanding of this grew over the years, starting with his early days of community connection. At gatherings in church basements, he learned that effective public speaking is a two-way conversation, where listening to the audience is just as important as delivering a message. These interactions helped him craft his own narrative and understand the deeper stories that shape individuals. He believed that everyone has a unique story worth sharing, which is essential in connecting with others on a meaningful level.
Years later, while studying at Harvard, Obama had the opportunity to give a speech honoring civil rights leader John Lewis. It was during this event that he first felt the power of storytelling and connection. Obama realized how well he could engage his listeners when he spoke from the heart and shared his passion. By the time he took the stage at the 2004 Democratic Convention, he had honed his ability to engage an audience, using the rhythm of storytelling to convey larger themes about identity and values.
Public speaking isn’t a skill you’re born with; it’s something anyone can learn and improve over time. The first step is believing in yourself – knowing that you have a valuable message to share and trusting that you’re the right person to say it. That inner confidence is key, even if you have doubts. Everyone has a story, and yours matters just as much as anyone else’s.
Before crafting a speech, it’s essential to reflect on who you are. This self-awareness will shape everything you say. Ask yourself deep questions like: What do I believe in? What are my goals? What makes me unique? The answers will help you tell your story with confidence and authenticity. It’s not just about facts or figures – your personal experiences are what make your message stand out.
When preparing, think about the stories that only you can tell. For example, in a job interview, instead of giving standard responses, share specific moments from your life that show your skills in action. Or, if you’re speaking at a funeral, a tribute, or a community event, share a couple of short stories that truly capture the essence of the person or cause you’re honoring.
Great public speaking is also about taking control of the entire experience, not just the words you say. You’re the writer, director, and performer. Craft your message thoughtfully, thinking about the emotional journey you want to take your audience on. And don’t be afraid to add a little spectacle. Remember, nobody came to watch a PowerPoint presentation – they came to connect with you. If you use slides, make sure they complement your talk, not distract from it.
You also get to design the stage – literally. Whether it’s choosing a scenic location for your talk, setting up your Zoom background, or deciding if you’ll use a podium or walk around with a handheld mic, these details matter. They help create an experience that feels right for both you and your audience.
Finally, don’t think of a speech as a solo act. Involve your audience – ask questions, invite them to engage, and even share the stage with others. Highlighting someone else’s story or contribution can make your talk more memorable and powerful than just sticking to your own words.
When it’s time to prepare, follow the 50–25–25 Rule. Spend 50 percent of your time thinking and organizing, 25 percent writing, and 25 percent practicing and refining. Always know your audience and ensure that you craft a message that will truly resonate with them. Great speeches start with great preparation, and that preparation begins with knowing who you are and what you stand for.
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What is Say It Well about?
Say it Well (2024) offers a guide to delivering speeches that will both captivate and inspire action. With practical tips on crafting engaging openings, connecting emotionally with your audience, and using the power of storytelling, it helps you make every word count. Whether you’re a seasoned speaker or just getting started, this advice will leave you feeling confident and ready to address any audience.
Who should read Say It Well?
- Public speakers looking to improve their skills
- Leaders and executives wanting to motivate and inspire
- Aspiring toastmasters wishing to effectively engage audiences
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