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Blink 3 of 8 - The 5 AM Club
by Robin Sharma
A Step-by-Step Guide to Make Dopamine Work for You
Taming the Molecule of More delves into dopamine's influence on desire, motivation, and behavior. It provides insights on harnessing this powerful neurotransmitter to improve decision-making and pursue lasting happiness rather than fleeting pleasure.
Think about the last time you truly wanted something. Not the quiet enjoyment of having it, but the intense focus, the almost restless energy directed toward achieving or obtaining it. That “wanting” sensation is where dopamine shines. Simply put, it’s your brain’s chemical messenger specialized in anticipation and possibility. It generates excitement around potential outcomes, often making the idea of the future reward feel even more compelling than the reward itself.
It turns out this response is a feature of our biology, and it’s been shaped over millennia. Our ancestors lived in environments where constantly scanning the horizon and pursuing novelty was essential for survival. And it was dopamine which provided that vital, future-focused drive.
But here’s the thing with dopamine – while it excels at anticipation, it’s not great at sustaining that feeling after you get what you want. You see, the actual experience of satisfaction – the warmth of connection, the simple enjoyment of tasting good food – relies on a different set of brain chemicals entirely. These other chemicals are all about the “here and now,” grounding you firmly in your present experience.
Think about finally getting that gadget you obsessed over for months. The moment it’s actually in your hands, dopamine’s main job is done. That intense wanting starts to fade. What replaces it is the sensory reality – how it feels, how it looks. And quite often, that reality might feel a bit underwhelming compared to the dazzling future dopamine had painted. This gap between anticipation and having helps explain why victories feel fleeting and the appeal of new things fades quickly. It’s also why you might find yourself thinking, “Okay, what’s next?” much sooner than you’d have guessed. This pattern fuels a cycle of seeking, brief satisfaction, and renewed restlessness.
The challenge arises because this ancient dopamine circuitry, fine-tuned for survival, often feels out of sync with our modern lives of relative safety and incredible abundance. Today, this system gets triggered constantly. Basic needs still activate it, but so does an endless stream of notifications, ads, social media, and constant choices. This constant stimulation can leave you feeling unsettled, subtly dissatisfied, always scanning for that elusive “more.”
Recognizing this internal dynamic – this push-and-pull between future-focused wanting and present-moment having – is a really useful first step. Understanding it opens the door to managing it more consciously for greater balance in life. Let’s move on to exploring some ways you can do that.
Taming the Molecule of More (2025) provides practical methods for guiding the brain chemical that fuels your drive and wanting. You’ll get insights into managing urges, sparking motivation when it flags, and handling modern situations from relationships to digital distractions. Its step-by-step approach shows how dopamine can support you, leading to greater satisfaction and personal command in daily life.
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