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Lisa Damour

Confronting the Epidemic of Stress and Anxiety in Girls

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'Under Pressure' by Lisa Damour explains how the teenage girls in our lives are responding to the pressures of contemporary culture and discusses how best to engage with and support them. It provides valuable insights and helpful advice for parents, guardians, and educators.

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    Depending on the circumstances, stress and anxiety are not always unhealthy.

    Being a girl can be tough. Even in the twenty-first century, when many of the legal, social and political barriers to female advancement are being removed, girls are still under pressures that their male counterparts aren’t. And these pressures take their toll. Over the last few years, stress and anxiety among girls have skyrocketed. But before moving on to the real and damaging pressures that girls face, first, it’s crucial to understand that a little stress is not always a bad thing. In fact, it can be helpful.

    For instance, psychological research has found that the stress caused by pushing ourselves outside of our comfort zone can result in personal growth. We experience helpful stress when we undertake unfamiliar challenges, like speaking in front of a large group of people. These sorts of challenges help us build resilience so we can face future hardships with strength.

    Similarly, experiencing some anxiety from time to time, characterized by feelings of dread, panic and fear, is not necessarily a cause for concern.

    Why is this? Anxiety lets us know that something’s wrong. Sometimes this is an appropriate reaction. For instance, if a teenager expresses anxiety at the thought of an important upcoming exam, it may be because they haven’t revised enough yet. Ultimately, though, there is a tipping point at which stress and anxiety become unhealthy.

    This is when anxiety negatively impacts one’s mental wellbeing. Importantly, this impact is determined less by the actual source of stress, and more determined by whether or not the individual has adequate emotional, financial or social resources available to tackle the issue.

    For instance, breaking an arm could be a resilience-boosting source of stress for a girl who has friends to take notes in class for her. But what about a girl whose university hopes are riding on an athletic scholarship? Chances are, that same broken arm could severely interfere with her mental health.

    When it comes to anxiety, we can distinguish between healthy and unhealthy levels by noticing if our alarm system is going off far too frequently. If this happens, we find ourselves constantly feeling panicked and fearful, and our thoughts race from one anxious thought to the next – will my teacher make me look stupid in front of my classmates? Will my ride home leave without me?

    When our anxieties go into overdrive, it interferes with our sleep, happiness and concentration, and quickly becomes unhealthy.

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    What is Under Pressure about?

    Under Pressure (2019) explores the particular challenges that school-aged girls face throughout their education, at home and in society at large. Drawing on her wealth of experience as a clinical psychologist, Lisa Damour explains how parents, teachers and mentors can help girls overcome the stress and anxiety that disproportionately affects young women.

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    Under Pressure (2019) by Lisa Damour offers a timely exploration of the challenges faced by today's teenagers and provides valuable insights for parents and educators. Here's why this book is worth reading:

    • With a wealth of research and expertise, the book demystifies the complex world of teen psychology, offering practical strategies for understanding and supporting adolescents.
    • Through engaging case studies and real-life examples, Damour brings the book's concepts to life, making it relatable and applicable to everyday situations.
    • The author's compassionate and non-judgmental approach to parenting and teaching ensures readers feel supported and empowered, keeping the book anything but boring.

    Best quote from Under Pressure

    Having parents who will work with, not against, their inborn traits, is crucial in helping children to adapt and thrive.

    —Lisa Damour
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    Who should read Under Pressure?

    • Parents hoping to brush up on their skills
    • Feminists looking for fresh insights into female psychology
    • Education professionals seeking to support female students

    About the Author

    Lisa Damour, PhD is a clinical psychologist specializing in education and child development. She is also the Director of the Laurel School’s Center for Research on Girls and the New York Times best-selling author of Untangled.

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    Under Pressure is a valuable read for understanding and supporting teenage girls. It offers insightful strategies and advice for parents, educators, and anyone wanting to make a positive impact.

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