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The main message of Let Me Out is to embrace creativity and break free from self-imposed limitations.

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Peter Himmelman is the author of Let Me Out.

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Name: Let Me Out
Rating: 4.3 (47 reviews)
Author: Peter Himmelman

Peter Himmelman

Unlock Your Creative Mind and Bring Your Ideas to Life

4.3 (47 ratings)

17 mins

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'Let Me Out' by Peter Himmelman is a guide to breaking free from negative patterns of thinking and behavior. It offers insights and tools to help readers live more fully and creatively, fulfilling their true potential.

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What’s in it for me? Let go of your fear of failure.

If you had no fear, what would you do? Would you start the novel that’s been a half-scribbled idea in your journal for years? Would you take singing lessons? Would you start training for a marathon?

Many of us have dreams that we’re afraid to say out loud or even admit to ourselves. Why? Because of our fear of failure, and the related fears of embarrassment and shame. These stifle our dreams and stall them as fantasy instead of transforming them into reality.

But what if you could do something about it?

Every creative has had to face these fears, and they exist only in the mind. The artists and achievers we see celebrated in the media are not necessarily more talented than us, but they were brave enough to confront their fears and learn to quiet them.

In these blinks, you’ll learn

who Marv is, and why you have to learn to shut him up;
why rediscovering your inner child is great for unlocking creativity; and
how you might be similar to a baby elephant.

Got an idea? Confront your fears and challenge negative mind-sets with small concrete actions.

Have you got an idea for a book, song, film script or business stashed away? Why are you sitting on it? Get moving!

The first step to realizing your dreams is to overcome fear.

It’s normal to fear failure. Worry inevitably becomes the biggest obstacle when we really want to succeed. We start talking ourselves down. Maybe we tell ourselves that we aren’t talented enough or that someone has beaten us to the punch, or that we’re not qualified.

Repeating negative thoughts gets us nowhere. It leads to procrastination at best and self-sabotage at worst. Especially when that pessimism starts piling up.

Such negative thinking is almost always rooted in past experience.

Perhaps, for instance, you've never had a freelancer in your family. You might have internalized the belief that running a business is difficult. It needn’t be. There’s nothing stopping you from starting that dream travel agency if you really want to!

Equally, if you don't take that first step, negativity and fear can escalate. But the moment you get the ball rolling, even if it’s just the smallest nudge, things won’t seem so insurmountable.

A good way to unblock negative beliefs is by using a Brain Bottle Opener (BBO for short). These are simple time-limited creative exercises designed to unlock ideas.

A BBO works something like this. In a 15-minute slot, you could scribble down possible options for your new venture’s name. In ten minutes you could doodle some logo ideas. In a couple of minutes, you could buy a domain name.

By working to a fixed time and on a defined task, you can quickly snap out of sluggish and negative mind-sets. Every concrete action takes you that little bit closer to realizing your goal.

So that’s the first step. Where do you go from here?

Understand your inner critic and learn to free yourself from doubt.

It’s easy for people who know no better to ask, “Why don’t you just get started and do it?” But the truth is, getting going can be pretty hard work. Just why is that?

That little inner voice that fills our heads with doubt certainly plays a part. The author has a name for it: Marv, short for “Majorly Afraid of Revealing Vulnerability.”

Reach your goal by confronting fears of abandonment and building trust.

It’s a wonderful thing when you find your sense of purpose and live by it. So why is it so tricky to put that inner critic to rest?

Well, Marv's job is made easier by playing on feelings of abandonment. So it’s critical to understand them if you want to confront him. He thinks he’s a self-protection mechanism, but he’s really not.

Let your inner child lead your creative process.

Once you’ve got going, you’ll be better equipped to face down residual fears. But doubts can still bubble up and slow you down. The trick is to embrace creative methods that keep you pushing forward.

Embracing your inner child is a sure way to galvanize your project.

To stay motivated, visualize your dream future and learn from past mistakes.

You should now have a good idea of what you want to achieve. You know what creative tools to use and how to assuage any doubts. But there’s always room for improvement when it comes to motivation strategies.

Try imagining how your life will be once you’ve achieved your dream. Positive thoughts will contribute to a positive outcome.

Accept that change happens and learn to face the future with a clear mind.

Change is part of life. It's scary. Sometimes it leads to good, sometimes to bad. It’s essential to learn to embrace both sides of the coin. If you can deal with change, you’ll be better equipped for the future.

Change is just part of the creative journey when you're pursuing a dream.

Keep your dream alive by identifying support networks.

Planning your first solo concert? Then you should call a mate who’s played a few gigs and discuss his experiences.

A group of supportive friends is an invaluable asset if you want to fulfill your dreams.

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What is Let Me Out about?

Let Me Out (2016) offers techniques for overcoming the fears that delay or hamper new projects. The book advocates a series of useful methods designed to nurture creativity and boost the imagination. It’s about opening the floodgates to new ideas and making them a reality.

Let Me Out Review

Let Me Out (2016) by Peter Himmelman is a thought-provoking book that explores the importance of embracing our creativity and living a truly fulfilling life. Here are three reasons why this book is worth reading:

Himmelman's inspiring insights offer valuable guidance on how to tap into our creative potential and overcome the barriers that hold us back.
The book provides practical exercises to help readers unlock their creativity and develop a greater sense of purpose and fulfillment in their lives.
With its engaging anecdotes and relatable stories, the book keeps readers engaged and motivated, ensuring that it is anything but boring.

Who should read Let Me Out?

People who want to start new projects but are afraid to take the first step
Creatives who feel stuck in a rut
Anyone who feels past bad experiences are holding them back

About the Author

Peter Himmelman is a successful Grammy- and Emmy-nominated musician, author and visual artist. He created the company Big Muse to share communication and leadership skills with organizations and individuals all over the world. He runs seminars on how to use creativity and unlock paths to new solutions.

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