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Mónica Guzmán
How to Have Fearlessly Curious Conversations in Dangerously Divided Times
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I Never Thought of It That Way by Mónica Guzmán delves into bridging communication gaps through curiosity and understanding, encouraging open dialogue in our divided world and offering tools to foster connection across differing perspectives.
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Sorting, othering, and siloing intensify division
You’ve probably heard the phrase “birds of a feather flock together.” Well, that’s what the author, Mónica Guzmán, refers to as sorting. Sorting happens when people naturally cluster into groups that share similar views, values, and ideologies. Put simply, we humans love being alike. This sorting can occur geographically – people move to neighborhoods where the political leanings align with their own – and socially, as they form relationships with others who think like them.
In today’s world, social media algorithms have intensified sorting by showing us content that reflects our existing beliefs. This, in turn, has led to the creation of echo chambers where we’re surrounded by people and messages that reinforce our worldview. Sorting isn’t inherently harmful per se, but it does become a problem when it prevents us from hearing or understanding opposing perspectives. It leaves us blind to the validity of other viewpoints and creates a distorted sense of reality.
Then, there’s othering, which takes sorting one step further. Once we’re sorted into like-minded groups, it becomes easy to view those outside our group as fundamentally different, wrong, or even immoral. There’s us, and then there’s them.
Othering happens when we strip people of their individuality and reduce them to their political affiliation. In this process, we begin to vilify those who don’t share our views, seeing them not as complex human beings but as enemies or obstacles. Othering dehumanizes our opponents and makes it nearly impossible to have respectful conversations with them. The more we “other” people, the more entrenched we become in our own beliefs, and the less willing we are to listen.
Finally, there’s siloing, which occurs when we limit ourselves to information and conversations that align with our worldview.
In siloed environments, people only consume media and engage in discussions that confirm their beliefs. This reinforces the intellectual echo chamber where contradictory information is either ignored or dismissed. Siloing not only shields us from other viewpoints, but also fosters a dangerous certainty that we’re right, while those who disagree are completely wrong. This dynamic feeds polarization by strengthening that divide between “us” and “them.”
But there is a solution: curiosity. We’ll look at that next.
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What is I Never Thought of It That Way about?
I Never Thought of It That Way (2022) explores how curiosity can bridge deep political and ideological divides. It offers practical tools for engaging in meaningful conversations with people whose views differ from your own, promoting understanding and reducing polarization in a divided society.
Who should read I Never Thought of It That Way?
- Politically engaged individuals looking to improve their discussions
- Curious thinkers seeking to challenge their own assumptions
- Community leaders aiming to encourage constructive dialogue across divides
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