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Name: I Hate Job Interviews
Rating: 4.4 (11 reviews)
Author: Sam Owens

Sam Owens

Stop Stressing. Start Performing. Get the Job You Want.

4.4 (11 ratings)

16 mins

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I Hate Job Interviews offers practical advice to help job seekers navigate the often stressful and daunting process of interviewing, emphasizing strategies for authentic communication and building confidence to successfully secure desired positions.

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Job Hunt Interviewing Self-Help Confidence Career Progress

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I Hate Job Interviews
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What’s in it for me? Unlock your interview potential to secure the job you want.

Sam Owens once hated job interviews. In 2007, he entered business school with high hopes of landing a great internship. But after a series of rejections from companies like Target and Walmart, he realized his interview skills were holding him back. Despite his qualifications, Owens wasn’t getting offers, and his confidence took a hit. Eventually, he secured an internship, but only by luck, not skill. Determined to improve, he spent years studying how to master interviews, which transformed not only his career but also the careers of hundreds of others.

One of those people was Heather, a mid-career professional being pushed out of her job after a decade. Filled with fear and uncertainty, she dreaded the idea of starting over. But with Owens’s help, she rebuilt her confidence and learned how to approach interviews with a winning mindset. In just two months, she landed a fantastic job and finally shed tears of relief and joy.

In this Blink, you’ll learn the key strategies Owens teaches to help anyone become a standout in interviews. From mastering common questions to building confidence and delivering impressive answers, you’ll get a step-by-step guide to interview success. You’ll also discover the mental blocks that hold people back and how to overcome them.

By the end, you’ll be ready to face any interview with confidence, knowing that you have the tools to win the job you want.

Developing confidence through preparation and insight

Believing in yourself is essential when preparing for a job interview. Confidence shapes how others perceive you, but it’s something you must build through hard work. To show confidence that convinces interviewers, prepare thoroughly. Confidence comes from practice, not just a temporary boost. When you’ve prepared well, it will naturally come through in your responses and demeanor. Start by clearing your mind of any negative thoughts that might hold you back. Don’t let doubts about your abilities or feelings that you’re not the right “type” for the role linger – they’re “mental trash” you need to get rid of immediately.

Once you’ve cleared your mind, focus on what makes you uncomfortable. Embrace the parts of interview preparation that give you the most anxiety. Instead of avoiding them, lean into the discomfort. Mastering these difficult areas builds true confidence and gives you a significant edge over others. Discipline yourself to work on these areas until they no longer intimidate you.

Commit to ten hours of preparation. Spend three hours researching the company’s history, values, and products, and talk to people who know the organization if possible. Then, dedicate three more hours to developing your key examples – specific stories that showcase your strengths as they relate to the job. Finally, use four hours to practice your responses out loud. This may feel awkward at first, but practicing ensures your answers are smooth and natural, giving you the ability to improvise when necessary.

Take the extra step of gathering inside information through informational interviews. Reach out to people who know the company to gain insights that go beyond what you’ll find online. These conversations will help you understand the company culture, current challenges, and even the personalities of the people you’ll meet during your interview. This knowledge will allow you to tailor your answers and show that you understand the company’s needs.

Prepare for these conversations by researching the person you’ll be speaking with. Express sincere appreciation for their time, ask thoughtful questions, and actively listen. At the end of the conversation, ask if there’s anyone else they suggest you talk to. Expanding your network can uncover even more opportunities.

In short, prepare by clearing negative thoughts, embracing discomfort, committing to ten hours of research, and seeking inside information. When you follow these steps, you’ll build the confidence that sets you apart and helps you secure the job.

Positioning and practice

To stand out in a job interview, it’s important to position yourself strategically. This begins with studying the job description carefully. Job descriptions aren’t just lists of requirements – they tell you what the company values most in a candidate. By identifying the key skills or experiences the employer is seeking, you can tailor your preparation. Focus especially on the first few listed skills, as these are usually the most important.

Once you understand the job requirements, build “power examples” from your own experiences. These are specific instances that highlight the skills the company is looking for. The more tangible and relevant they are, the stronger your answers will be. You should have at least three examples for each major skill in the job description. Your examples should always position you as the person who solved the problem or took the lead in a situation. If your experience doesn’t perfectly match the job requirements, you can “bridge” your experience by drawing connections between what you’ve done and what the company needs. This technique helps show that you have transferable skills that make you a good fit for the role.

Succeeding with introductory, behavioral, and scenario questions

When you’re preparing for a job interview, remember that the first question can set the tone for everything that follows. It’s your chance to create momentum by showing the interviewer why you’re the perfect fit. You’ll often hear questions like, Tell me about yourself, or, Why do you want this job? These may sound casual, but they’re designed to see how well you can highlight your relevant skills, your performance history, and why you’re genuinely interested in the role.

The key is to persuade without being pushy. Start with gratitude – acknowledging the interviewers’ time sets a positive tone. Then, use facts and examples to show your strengths. Respect the interviewers’ right to form their opinions and they’ll be more convinced. Most importantly, radiate positivity. Even if you’ve had negative experiences, never bring them up – it can make you seem like a risky hire. Instead, focus on your skills, results, and interest in the role.

Handling tough, creative, illegal, and wacky questions

In an interview, you may face unexpected and challenging questions designed to throw you off balance. These can include “trap questions” that appear harmless but can lead you into negative territory, such as, Why are you leaving your current job? Or, What didn’t you like about your last boss? To answer them effectively, stay positive. Instead of focusing on what went wrong, emphasize what you learned or how the new role offers better opportunities. Always avoid speaking poorly about a previous employer, as that can reflect badly on you.

Some questions will test your ability to think creatively under pressure. For instance, you might be asked to brainstorm product ideas or come up with ways to market something in real time. These questions aren’t about perfection but about how fast you can generate ideas. The key is to let your mind go and have fun with the challenge. It’s important to remember that everyone has creative potential, and you can tap into it by asking yourself questions about the problem at hand, such as who the target audience is or how the product can be used in unexpected ways.

Finishing strongly in your interviews and negotiations

When you’re in an interview, it’s important to finish strong. The end of the conversation is your chance to leave a lasting impression, so when asked if you have any questions, make sure they are engaging and thoughtful. Instead of asking questions designed to make you look smart or that focus on your own needs, keep the conversation centered on the job itself and the company. For instance, ask about the company’s challenges, what excites the interviewer about their work, or the qualities that make employees successful. This keeps the tone positive and shows genuine interest in the role.

You also need to address any concerns the interviewer might have. Sometimes, you can sense these concerns through their questions or reactions. If you’re unsure, ask directly if there’s anything about your candidacy that’s unclear or troubling. It’s important to resolve any doubts before leaving the room. When responding to a concern, acknowledge it first, and then explain why you’re still a good fit. For example, if they bring up your lack of experience, point out other strengths or experiences that compensate for that. By doing this, you turn a possible negative into an opportunity to reinforce your value. At the end, clearly express your excitement about the job and ask about the next steps. This gives you a concrete follow-up point and reduces any post-interview anxiety.

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What is I Hate Job Interviews about?

I Hate Job Interviews (2024) provides a comprehensive system for mastering job interviews, offering frameworks and techniques to tackle a wide variety of questions with confidence. It equips you with tools to craft compelling examples, practice effectively, and negotiate salary, all aimed at helping you stand out and secure your desired positions.

Who should read I Hate Job Interviews?

Recent college graduates entering the job market
Job seekers preparing for important interviews
Mid-career professionals seeking new opportunities

About the Author

Sam Owens is a career coach and chief marketing officer with extensive experience working for multibillion-dollar companies in the consumer packaged goods industry. He’s the founder of Sam’s Career Talk, where he helps people land and thrive in their dream jobs. Owens is also the author of The 8 Career Skills You Didn’t Learn in College, which focuses on advancing professional skills.

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