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by Robin Sharma
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Elizabeth Weingarten
A New Way to Thrive in Times of Uncertainty
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How to Fall in Love with Questions examines the transformative power of curiosity, encouraging individuals to embrace questions as tools for understanding, personal growth, and collaboration in a constantly evolving world.
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The power of curiosity
Curiosity might be one of the most undervalued qualities in the modern world. The tendency to ask questions is an inborn human trait, but it often diminishes as we grow older. In adulthood, many of us become more concerned with having the answers than exploring the possibilities. Yet curiosity is the gateway to deeper understanding – and a more meaningful connection with the world.
Our brains naturally seek certainty and closure. This biological tendency served our ancestors well for survival but can limit our growth in a complex world. By intentionally cultivating curiosity, we can push against this tendency to close down, and expand our understanding.
When you embrace curiosity, you open yourself to new perspectives, ideas, and paths. But it means acknowledging what you don’t know rather than clinging to what you believe. The most innovative thinkers throughout history maintained their sense of wonder well into adulthood. They recognized that uncertainty wasn’t a problem to solve, but a space where discovery happens.
Consider Alexander Fleming and his discovery of penicillin. Fleming noticed something unusual in his lab when a mold contaminated one of his bacteria cultures. Instead of discarding it as a failed experiment, his curiosity drove him to explore why bacteria weren’t growing near the mold. This choice of curious observation over frustrated dismissal eventually led to one of the most important medical discoveries in human history. Fleming’s willingness to pause and question the unexpected changed the course of modern medicine and saved countless lives.
Think about a recent situation where you felt certain about something, only to learn new information that changed your perspective. That moment of realization – that shift in understanding – happened because you allowed space for new information to enter. This willingness to remain open is at the heart of meaningful growth.
Curiosity works best when practiced regularly. You can strengthen this muscle by adopting simple daily habits. At the end of each day, take five minutes to identify something you learned or a perspective that shifted. Notice how this learning came about. Was it through a question you asked? Something you observed? Information you sought out?
You can also practice what Weingarten calls curious listening. When you’re talking to someone, try focusing fully on their perspective instead of thinking about what you’ll say next. Listen for what sparks your curiosity, and follow that thread with real interest. Start small: pick one conversation today where you ask at least two follow-up questions before offering your own take. Chances are, you’ll walk away having learned something new.
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What is How to Fall in Love with Questions about?
How to Fall in Love with Questions (2025), offers a framework for embracing uncertainty as a catalyst for growth. Weaving together research, historical examples, and practical exercises, it crafts a compelling case for making questioning a central practice in relationships, work, self-development, and life.
Who should read How to Fall in Love with Questions?
- Leaders and managers seeking to boost innovation and team dynamics
- Lifelong learners and self-development enthusiasts
- Anyone wanting to think more clearly and curiously
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