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by Robin Sharma
How to Build Trust and Connection, No Matter the Distance
Digital Body Language by Erica Dhawan explores the importance of online communication and provides strategies for building better virtual relationships. Through understanding digital cues, readers can improve collaboration and connection in the digital age.
Here’s an all too common story.
Laura and Dave were having a fight via text. Back and forth it went – for hours. Finally, Laura gave up and typed, So r we thru? Dave replied, I guess so. Devastated by the loss of her three-year relationship, Laura called in sick to work the next day. That night, Dave showed up at her door, wondering why she hadn’t come to dinner as planned.
You can probably tell where this is going. Laura thought they were through, while Dave meant they were through arguing. Oops.
Laura and Dave aren’t alone in their confusion. We send each other an unbelievable amount of messages every day. And a lot of these messages are taken the wrong way. Take email. 306 billion emails are exchanged each day; the average person sends 30 and receives 96. According to the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, the tone of our emails is misinterpreted 50 percent of the time!
Our bewilderment boils down to the fact that we’re cue-less – in the most literal sense. Anthropologist Edward T. Hall had a name for the nonverbal cues – things like eye contact, smiles, pauses, yawns, tone, volume, posture, and proximity – which make up nearly three-quarters of face-to-face communication. He called them “the silent language.”
Problem is, the silent language isn’t exactly visible from behind a screen. And the gap between intention and interpretation in the digital world is only made bigger by the online disinhibition effect. This happens when we let loose and express ourselves with a level of informality we’d never entertain offline.
What does this all say for the modern workplace, where roughly 70 percent of communication among teams is virtual? Or for our personal lives, especially during the COVID-19 pandemic, where socialization online is more frequent than in-person meetups?
In these blinks, I’m going to explore our understanding of body language and redefine it for the contemporary world. By focusing on how we say something, as well as on what we say – in other words, by becoming aware of our digital body language – I believe we can increase productivity, boost mental well-being, and ensure we’re our best selves, even online.
Digital Body Language (2021) is your rulebook to clear online communication. Combining cutting-edge research with personal know-how, it demystifies the digital signals that so often stand in for traditional body language.
Digital Body Language (2021) by Erica Dhawan is an insightful guide to decoding and leveraging virtual communication cues to bridge the digital divide. Here's why this book is worth reading:
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What is the main message of Digital Body Language?
The main message of Digital Body Language is the importance of understanding and adapting to communication cues in virtual settings.
How long does it take to read Digital Body Language?
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Digital Body Language is worth reading as it provides valuable insights into effective communication in the digital age.
Who is the author of Digital Body Language?
The author of Digital Body Language is Erica Dhawan.