A personal meditation on life, feminism, and what it means to be a woman
The Soul of a Woman by Isabel Allende is a personal reflection exploring the connections between feminism, family, and personal history. Allende shares her experiences and honors the women who have influenced her life.
Isabel’s mother, Panchita, was young, beautiful, and coquettish. She was also in love with a man her family didn’t approve of. Her father repeatedly urged her not to marry, but Panchita didn’t listen.
The couple were living in Peru with three children when Panchita’s husband abandoned her. Divorce was illegal at the time, so they decided to annul the marriage. The husband only agreed to do so on the condition that he would never have to take care of his children again. One of those children was Isabel.
Afterward, Panchita was forced to return to her parents’ house in Chile, where she was scorned and gossiped about relentlessly. She had no work experience or training, and no resources of her own. As a result, Isabel felt the damaging effects of patriarchy before she was even old enough to remember it.
But Panchita wasn’t the only woman in Isabel’s life reduced to subordinacy – the family’s housemaids were, too. They worked from dusk until dawn and then went to sleep in tiny, windowless rooms. The only furniture they had were small cots and shoddy dressers. Like Panchita, they lacked both resources and a voice.
Witnessing these different forms of mistreatment ignited a raging fire within Isabel. She felt viscerally frustrated with men’s authority and became obsessed with fighting for women’s justice.
She didn’t hold her anger inside. In fact, she was so stubborn and defiant that Panchita actually consulted doctors about her daughter’s temperament. Today, Isabel finds this ironic because anger and defiance are considered completely normal – or even desirable – traits in men. But when they belong to women and girls they’re seen as an indication of a mental disorder.
This dichotomy is a prime example of the effects of patriarchy, which Isabel defines as the system of oppression that dominates most societies. It’s one that gives special privileges and dominance to men, and not always in obvious ways. It perpetuates not just misogyny, or the hatred of women, but other forms of aggression as well: racism, homophobia, and classism, to name a few.
And the solution? Well, that would be feminism, which Isabel considers to be both a philosophy and a movement committed to ending male dominance. Importantly, feminism isn’t just about helping women play the game of patriarchy. It’s about replacing it with a better system altogether – one in which femininity is considered just as valuable as masculinity.
The Soul of a Woman (2021) is an honest and personal meditation on life, feminism, and what it means to be a woman. Drawing on experiences from the author’s life, it explores issues around women’s oppression, love, ambition, aging, and abuse. It is at once the story of one woman and the story of all women.
The patriarchy is stony. Feminism, like the ocean, is fluid, powerful, deep . . . Like the ocean, feminism never stays quiet.
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