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Meghan French Dunbar
How Women Can Overcome Stress and Overload to Find Success
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This Isn't Working by Meghan French Dunbar examines the traditional work culture's flaws and advocates for creating more inclusive, supportive environments. It offers actionable strategies for leaders to foster meaningful change and enhance workplace well-being.
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Assessing the field
Picture walking into a conference room where you’re the only woman among twelve executives. You’ve prepared meticulously for this presentation. Your data is flawless, and your recommendations are sharp. Yet when you speak, eleven pairs of eyes drift to their phones. And when your male colleague repeats the same point five minutes later, everyone nods appreciatively. You leave that room questioning whether you communicated clearly, or could have been more assertive, or maybe less so?
This scene plays out thousands of times daily in offices worldwide. The exhausting part isn’t just that it happens. It’s that women have been trained to see it as a personal failure instead of a systemic pattern.
Understanding patriarchy means recognizing it as a factual description, not a moral judgment. It names the reality that in nearly every society, for thousands of years, men have held disproportionate power, influence, and authority. This isn’t about claiming men are inherently wrong or evil. It’s about acknowledging that our workplaces, like our societies, were built on the foundational belief that men are superior to women – and that this foundation shapes everything from meeting dynamics to promotion criteria.
The system teaches women to focus on serving and pleasing others while staying agreeable and not causing discomfort. These conflicting expectations don’t disappear when you enter the workplace; they intensify. You’re supposed to lead decisively, but not be bossy. Show strength yet stay nurturing. Be ambitious but not threatening. The game requires you to excel at contradictory rules simultaneously.
These impossible standards create real consequences. Like when you work late to prove your commitment, then feel guilty about missing bedtime stories. Or when you apologize before stating your opinion in meetings, or quiet yourself in groups of men – even when you’re the subject matter expert. When you meticulously prepare to avoid any perception of inadequacy, yet never feel quite good enough.
The physical toll compounds the mental one. Chronic stress from navigating hostile terrain every day affects your sleep, your health, your relationships. You might develop that permanent knot between your shoulder blades from unconsciously bracing yourself before entering certain spaces. Your body keeps the score of every microaggression, every moment of being overlooked, every time you had to work twice as hard for half the recognition.
Once you see this clearly – that the playing field was never level, that the rules were written for a game you were never meant to win – something shifts. You stop internalizing the system’s failures as your own inadequacy. And that’s where your new strategy begins.
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What is This Isn't Working about?
This Isn’t Working (2025) uncovers how patriarchal workplace structures create impossible double standards for women leaders, causing chronic stress and burnout that no amount of individual resilience can overcome. It offers a playbook for recognizing these systemic patterns, developing protective strategies, building collective power, and ultimately reshaping organizations to value human sustainability alongside business success.
Who should read This Isn't Working?
- Reformed “lean-iners” who followed all the advice but hit invisible walls anyway
- Exhausted optimists who still believe in change but need sustainable ways to create it
- Anyone who genuinely wants to understand and address workplace inequality
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