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Raymond M. Kethledge, Michael S. Erwin

Inspiring Leadership Through Solitude

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Lead Yourself First examines how solitude can enhance leadership by fostering clarity, creativity, and emotional balance. It highlights historical examples and practical strategies for leaders to harness the power of reflective solitude in decision-making.

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    Understanding leadership solitude

    The quiet of 5am brings a special clarity, a time when thoughts flow freely as others sleep. These peaceful moments create space for clear thinking, something great leaders throughout history have recognized as essential for developing their strongest insights and most creative solutions.

    Our modern world fills every minute with an endless stream of noise and interruption. Phone notifications buzz constantly throughout the day, emails begin stacking up before sunrise, and calendars overflow with back-to-back meetings. This constant barrage of information leads many leaders to spend their days reacting to urgent tasks instead of focusing on the deeper questions that shape their organizations’ futures.

    Others find creative ways to protect their thinking time. Take General James Mattis, who discovered his best strategic insights during helicopter rides above desert combat zones. With headphones blocking the roar of engines and his eyes tracking the landscape below, he learned something profound about leadership: good decisions need space for independent thinking.

    This principle guided Bill George during his time as CEO of Medtronic Inc. By arriving at work before anyone else and spending twenty minutes in complete quiet, he transformed his leadership approach. This simple habit created a daily buffer between constant communication and decision-making, helping him lead with greater clarity and purpose.

    These stories reveal something significant about leadership and solitude: finding quiet time doesn’t require elaborate retreats or special locations. Whether in a helicopter, an empty office, or on a quiet street, the right conditions emerge when we create space for our brains to process challenges independently, free from constant external input.

    Building this practice into your schedule starts with small steps. Begin with fifteen minutes before your day starts. Turn off notifications, sit quietly, and let your mind settle into its natural rhythm. You might be surprised by the solutions that surface when external voices fade away.

    Consider your daily routine and where quiet moments might naturally fit. Some people thrive in early mornings, while others find clarity in evening reflection. The exact timing matters less than consistency – so choose a period that aligns with your natural rhythm and protect it carefully.

    Leadership combines action with reflection, each strengthening the other. Regular periods of solitude create space for processing information and forming clear thoughts, building stronger decision-making skills over time. Start small, perhaps tomorrow, with just one quiet window in your schedule. Watch how this simple practice gradually transforms your approach to leadership, turning reactive responses into thoughtful choices.

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    What is Lead Yourself First about?

    Lead Yourself First (2017) shows how solitude shaped the decisions of remarkable leaders like Martin Luther King and Jane Goodall. Through historical examples and modern insights, it shows how deliberate solitude creates better decisions, deeper creativity, and authentic conviction. It also offers practical methods to find mental clarity in a distraction-filled world, building stronger leadership through moments of quiet reflection.

    Who should read Lead Yourself First?

    • Business executives seeking better strategic decision-making skills
    • Creative professionals looking for innovative breakthrough methods
    • Leaders wanting to build emotional and moral resilience

    About the Author

    Raymond M. Kethledge serves as a judge on the United States Court of Appeals for the Sixth Circuit and teaches at the University of Michigan Law School, where he previously earned his law degree.

    Michael S. Erwin, a West Point graduate and military veteran, is the CEO of the Character & Leadership Center and founder of multiple nonprofits focused on leadership development and veteran support.

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