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Blink 3 of 8 - The 5 AM Club
by Robin Sharma
How to Write, Direct, & Produce the Life You Want
Take a Shot at Happiness guides us through the pursuit of genuine happiness by aligning values with actions. Maria Baltazzi offers practical insights and personal stories to cultivate a more fulfilling and joyful life.
Forget the fantasy that happiness shows up when everything clicks into place — the job, the relationship, the money, the perfect house. That’s a trap. You hit one goal and, almost instantly, your mind jumps to the next. This cycle of wanting more, known as hedonic adaptation, keeps you chasing instead of arriving. It’s not about being ungrateful. It’s about how quickly we adjust and how external wins stop feeling satisfying.
It’s a cliché, but it’s true: happiness doesn’t come from outside. It starts within. That, though, is good news. It means it’s something you can build. Not overnight. Not with a single breakthrough. But gradually, through small, consistent actions. Things like practicing gratitude, letting go of grudges, noticing joy in ordinary moments – these aren’t extras. They’re the foundation.
It’s brushing your teeth while appreciating that you have running water. It’s saying thank you and actually meaning it. It’s calling someone just to hear their voice, or choosing to respond with kindness even when you’re tired. None of it is flashy, but all of it adds up.
One of the biggest mistakes we make is postponing happiness. “I’ll focus on feeling better once life calms down.” But life doesn’t calm down. Not for long, anyway. And waiting puts you in a loop where happiness is always somewhere in the future. The kids will get older, the inbox will shrink, the stress will pass – but so will the amount of time left for you to be happy. In other words: Happiness doesn’t live in a calmer future; it lives in the present tense – in how you relate to this moment.
So, let’s shift the frame. Remind yourself that happiness isn’t a mood or a reward – it’s a skill. Keep doing it until it sticks. And remember, too, that – like anything else worth learning – it takes practice. You train for it by showing up for yourself in tiny, doable ways. Maybe you journal what went right today. Maybe you cut back on the things that drain you. Maybe you walk a bit slower just to enjoy the breeze.
Neuroscience is on your side here. Studies show that qualities like optimism and resilience can be strengthened through deliberate effort. Your brain physically changes based on what you repeat. The more you act like a happy person, the more natural it becomes.
This isn’t about pretending everything’s fine. It’s about choosing to build something better, step by step. Set up habits that support your whole self – body, mind, and spirit. Happiness isn’t waiting to be discovered. It’s something you craft with your own hands, right where you are.
Want to make that choice stick? Let’s look at what it really means to take charge of your thoughts.
Take a Shot at Happiness (2023) is a guide to cultivating happiness through small, intentional practices. It encourages us to take control of our lives by shifting our perspective and embracing the present. Drawing on years of experience in a creative industry, it offers a practical, artistic approach to living with more joy, clarity, and meaning.
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Blink 3 of 8 - The 5 AM Club
by Robin Sharma