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by Robin Sharma
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Matt Richtel
Understanding Adolescence
26 mins
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How We Grow Up explores the mysteries of human development, blending scientific insights with personal narratives. Matt Richtel delves into the factors shaping our lives, offering a compelling look at growth from childhood through adulthood.
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America, built by teenage revolution
If you ever were one, you’ll remember: being a teen isn’t easy. But being a teen today can seem even harder than it used to be.
Mental health emergencies among youth have increased substantially over the past decade, and suicide rates are climbing. Instead of the risky behaviors that once worried parents – sex, drugs, and rock’n’roll – young people now struggle more with internal battles like depression, self-harm, and despair.
But what if this crisis isn’t just about troubled teens who need fixing? What if it reveals something fundamental about how human societies evolve?
Take Thomas, a passionate fourteen-year-old who snuck glitter into a Utah government building during a 2014 marriage equality protest. As adults debated inside, he scattered his sparkling ammunition, shouting “Equality!” as opponents hurled bottles at him. To many, he looked like a typical disruptive teenager.
Yet Thomas descended from Francis Billington, another fourteen-year-old troublemaker aboard the Mayflower. During the voyage, Francis fired his father’s musket at a barrel of gunpowder – nearly blowing up the ship. Fortunately, he missed his mark.
But Francis wasn’t done with pushing boundaries. His restless curiosity led him to climb a tall tree and spot what he thought was a vast, uncharted ocean. The colonists named it after him, though his “great discovery” turned out to be merely a sizable pond.
Both boys shared the same rebellious energy, separated by centuries. Francis helped build a new nation; Thomas fought to expand its definition of equality. Neither was simply acting out – they were fulfilling adolescence’s hidden function.
Young people naturally push boundaries and question established ways of thinking. This isn’t a bug in human development; it’s a feature. Each generation needs pioneers willing to venture into unexplored territory, test new ideas, and return with innovations that help society adapt.
Today’s adolescents face unique pressures while trying to fulfill this role. They mature physically at a younger age, navigate addictive technology, and process overwhelming volumes of information. Their developing brains struggle to handle these modern demands.
Rather than treating teenage rebellion as pathology, we need to understand its purpose. These young people aren’t broken – they’re testing tomorrow’s possibilities while we cling to yesterday’s certainties.
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What is How We Grow Up about?
How We Grow Up (2025) examines modern adolescence in all its beauty and complexity. Blending real-life coming-of-age stories with cutting-edge neuroscience, it reveals how the adolescent brain is wired, why today’s unique pressures challenge developing minds, and how we can better support teens navigating this critical journey.
Who should read How We Grow Up?
- Parents of teens who want to understand their adolescent’s behavior and challenges
- Educators and counselors seeking science-based insights to better support students
- Psychology and neuroscience enthusiasts interested in cutting-edge research
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