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Blink 3 of 8 - The 5 AM Club
by Robin Sharma
The Tender Bar by J.R. Moehringer tells the heartfelt story of a boy growing up in a Long Island bar, finding solace and guidance from the colorful characters who inhabit it. It is a tale of resilience, hope, and the power of community.
In The Tender Bar, J.R. Moehringer takes us through his challenging yet uplifting childhood in Manhasset, New York. Raised single-handedly by a hardworking mother, young J.R. finds himself yearning for a father figure. He finds solace and a sense of belonging at a local bar called Publicans, where the patrons and his charming Uncle Charlie, a bartender there, become his postulated family.
Publicans is an eclectic mix of personalities - from Wall Street wizards to hard-bitten cops - where J.R. learns not only how to pour the perfect beer but also uncovers the blueprint of manhood. Inspired by his Uncle Charlie, he seeks wisdom and guidance from the bar regulars, indulging in spirited conversations about money, women, and the nuances of life.
Through Publicans, Moehringer paints a powerful portrait of his pseudo father – The Voice. The Voice is none other than New York radio station WOR, the only connection left of his absentee father. The Radio talks to him, guides him, acting as a father figure. The radio is just another bar that mesmerizes J.R. with its far-flung, unseen patrons, their captivating stories and compelling voices.
With lingering questions about his father, J.R. reaches out to local broadcaster, Bud Wilkinson, his newest role model. Yet, he is left disillusioned when Wilkinson turns out to be less admirable than the man who lived on the radio. This incident drives J.R. further towards Publicans, where he dives deeper into his exploration of manhood.
The narrative unfolds as J.R. navigates through his adolescent life with education his saving grace against the tough odds. With ambitions of becoming a writer, he endeavors to escape the world of Publicans. Our protagonist’s diligence and hard work bear fruit when he gains admission to Yale University, only to be disheartened by the alien environment where he feels distinctly out of place.
However, his passion for writing persists. Ultimately, he lands an internship at The New York Times. Yet, the accomplishment feels hollow as he can’t escape the need to return to his roots. At Publicans, he finds his voice and discovers the stories inherently embedded within the barflys’ lives, kindling the realization that he wants to give voice to these untold narratives.
As J.R. matures, he comes to understand that all his life, he's been seeking not just his father but an understanding of himself. He is the product of both his mother's strength and his father's mystique. The barflys of Publicans played a crucial role not as role models, but as stepping stones towards becoming the man he wanted to be.
In conclusion, The Tender Bar is a heartwarming memoir by J.R. Moehringer about the voyage of self-discovery, personhood, and finding one’s place in the world. A beautiful testament to the fact that home isn’t always a physical place but sometimes the people who fill the voids in our lives. Our protagonist illustrates you can find the wisdom of a father within a cacophony of voices, and family can be construed not by blood, but by heart.
The Tender Bar by J.R. Moehringer is a memoir that takes us on a journey through the author's childhood and adolescence as he finds solace and guidance in his family's neighborhood bar. With humor and insight, Moehringer explores themes of identity, belonging, and the power of community, making this book a heartfelt and relatable read.
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by Robin Sharma