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A Philosophical User's Manual
The Practicing Stoic by Ward Farnsworth offers a practical guide to applying Stoicism in daily life. It explores timeless teachings and exercises to cultivate resilience, inner peace, and a deeper sense of fulfillment.
You’ve already learned the first principle of Stoicism: we don’t react to events – we react to judgments about events. It then follows, say the Stoics, that how we respond to what the world throws at us is a choice.
The Roman emperor and philosopher Marcus Aurelius, one of the great Stoic thinkers of the ancient world, explored this idea in the second century CE. He notes that it’s usually not things “out there” in the external world that distress us, but how we think about them.
You can’t control the traffic on your morning commute, for example – sometimes, there’ll be traffic jams. If you view this delay as a major inconvenience that ruins your plans and wastes your time, you’re going to feel annoyed. But you don’t have to frame it that way. You could, for example, see it as an unexpected opportunity to listen to your favorite podcast or simply have some quiet time to yourself. Framed that way, the experience is neutral or even enjoyable.
Stoics think our emotions involve a three-stage process. First, there’s an event – that traffic jam, say, or a passive-aggressive email from a colleague. We then form a judgment about these events: we decide that they’re bad and important. Finally, we react to our own judgments. Simply put, we get mad or sad – or just annoyed.
The middle step in this process is often overlooked. One of the ways we become wiser, Stoics argue, is to think more carefully about this step. When we pay attention, we realize that our judgments are frequently irrational.
Take personal slights. The insult itself is meaningless – unless you make something of it. If it bothers you, it’s because you’ve decided it’s significant. If you decided it didn’t matter, it would lose its power. Many irritations can be seen this way. Bad weather and noisy neighbors don’t have any intrinsic meaning; they can’t cause your annoyance. It’s how you react that does that.
Noticing how judgments are formed isn’t second nature. And when we do notice them, we discover how easy it is to hold contradictory opinions. Many people know that the spiders they find in their bathtubs aren’t dangerous, but are still scared of them. Often, we continue reacting negatively even though we know that our judgment is faulty. That’s one of the reasons Stoicism is hard – it requires a lot of psychological strength to change deeply ingrained reactions.
The Practicing Stoic (2018) offers guidance on how to handle tough times with a clear mind and steady heart. Tapping into ancient wisdom, it provides lasting lessons on seeing things clearly, making smart choices, and dealing with life’s challenges more smoothly.
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