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Haydn Shaw

How to Get 5 Generations Working Together

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Sticking Points addresses the challenges of managing generational differences in the workplace. Haydn Shaw provides actionable strategies to understand and harmonize the unique perspectives of Traditionalists, Baby Boomers, Generation X, Millennials, and Generation Z.

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    Waiting your turn makes little sense when five generations share workplace

    For most of human history, families and workplaces (which were often one and the same thing) ran on a simple rule: you waited your turn. Authority and assets moved slowly from old to young, usually when someone stepped aside or died. That rhythm made sense in a world of farms, land, and livestock, where change crawled and roles stayed stable for decades. 

    That world, though, is gone. We now live in societies and work in organizations in which up to five generations rub shoulders. That’s new. So is the friction that comes with it. 

    Longer lives are the first pressure point. A century ago, careers ended around fifty. Today, people often hit their stride at that age. Leadership seats stay occupied longer, which means younger colleagues are often asked to wait until midlife before gaining real influence. Ambition, in short, now frequently collides with longevity. Many younger people worry that good things don't necessarily come to those who wait.

    The second pressure point is speed. Information moves at a pace that compresses generations and new tools and ideas reshape work every few years. It’s not unusual for someone in their twenties to master systems that didn’t exist when their manager was trained. A junior analyst can pull data on a phone that used to be restricted to executive briefings. Access invites challenge from every direction. The diffusion of knowledge undermines old hierarchies where age and authority once coincided.

    The third shift is cultural. The youngest four generations were raised as consumers: they were taught to question, compare, and expect choice. Many grew up with parents who prized independent thinking over obedience. That mindset walks straight into the workplace. People want a voice early, feedback often, and work that feels engaging rather than dutiful.

    Faced with this reality, organizations tend to stumble into two unhelpful responses. The first is trying to ignore differences. The second is trying to force one generation to behave like another – a surefire way of wasting energy and fuelling resentment. People rarely enjoy being improved against their will.

    What actually works is leadership, not correction. That starts with curiosity about how work looks from another age group’s point of view. It continues with conversation, negotiation, and shared problem solving. Change is coming either way. Change is coming either way. As we'll see in this Blink, smart teams decide how much to welcome, learn to translate across age lines, and keep moving together instead of pulling apart.

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    What is Sticking Points about?

    Sticking Points (2013) explores what happens when up to five generations work side by side. It shows how shared goals at work are often undermined by everyday misunderstandings rooted in different generational experiences, habits, and expectations. The central message is practical and optimistic: these tensions are normal, manageable, and solvable when we learn how to work with differences instead of fighting them.

    Who should read Sticking Points?

    • Managers leading age-diverse teams
    • HR professionals
    • Anyone frustrated by generational misunderstandings at work

    About the Author

    Haydn Shaw is a workplace consultant and speaker who has spent more than two decades researching and advising organizations on generational differences. He’s widely known for helping leaders navigate age-related friction through practical frameworks rather than theory, and he also developed FranklinCovey’s bestselling workshops Leading Across Generations and Working Across Generations.

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