The best 31 Sexuality books

The Argonauts (2015) invites you on a transformative journey through language, identity, and love. You’ll delve deep into a personal yet universal exploration of queer family-making, motherhood, and relationships. Part memoir and part theory, this powerful narrative challenges you to consider the fluidity of life and embrace the power of transformation.

Fun Home is a graphic memoir by Alison Bechdel, exploring her complicated relationship with her father and her own coming out as a lesbian. Through striking illustrations and candid storytelling, Bechdel delves into themes of family, identity, and self-discovery, offering a unique and thought-provoking perspective on the challenges of growing up in a nonconventional household.

Call Me by Your Name is a captivating novel by André Aciman that tells the story of a passionate summer romance between 17-year-old Elio and 24-year-old Oliver. Set in the sun-drenched Italian countryside, the book explores themes of love, desire, and self-discovery. Aciman's beautiful prose and poignant storytelling make this a must-read for anyone who enjoys a heartfelt and thought-provoking tale.

Female Chauvinist Pigs by Ariel Levy explores the rise of raunch culture and the ways in which women are embracing and perpetuating harmful stereotypes. Through interviews and personal anecdotes, Levy delves into the world of strip clubs, reality TV, and porn, and challenges the notion that sexual liberation equals empowerment. Thought-provoking and insightful, this book sheds light on the complex relationship between feminism and the sexualization of women.

Sexual Intelligence by Marty Klein is a thought-provoking book that challenges common myths and misconceptions about sex. Through a combination of research, case studies, and practical advice, Klein explores the complexities of human sexuality and offers insights into how individuals can cultivate a healthier and more fulfilling sexual life. This book is a must-read for anyone interested in understanding and improving their sexual relationships.

Sex and Punishment by Eric Berkowitz delves into the fascinating history of sex laws and their enforcement. From ancient civilizations to modern times, the book explores how societies have sought to regulate sexual behavior and the often harsh punishments that have been imposed. It offers a thought-provoking examination of the intersection between sex, power, and the law.

The Talk by Luke Gilkerson is a practical guide for parents who want to have open and honest conversations with their children about sex and relationships. Filled with helpful tips and real-life examples, this book provides a roadmap for discussing this important topic in a way that is age-appropriate and values-centered.

Will Grayson, Will Grayson follows the intersecting lives of two teenage boys, both named Will Grayson. Written by John Green and David Levithan, this captivating novel explores themes of friendship, love, and self-discovery as the two characters navigate the complexities of high school and relationships. With poignant storytelling and unique perspectives, it offers a thought-provoking and heartwarming read.

Tipping the Velvet is a historical fiction novel by Sarah Waters that explores themes of gender identity and sexual freedom in Victorian England. Set in the 1890s, the story follows Nancy Astley, a young woman who falls in love with male impersonator Kitty Butler and embarks on a journey of self-discovery and independence. Through vivid storytelling and rich historical detail, the book delves into the hidden world of queer relationships and the societal constraints of the time.

Urban Tantra, Second Edition by Barbara Carrellas is a guide to sacred sex and spiritual intimacy in the modern world. This updated edition offers practical techniques and transformative tools for individuals and couples to explore the power of Tantra, while honoring their individual identities and desires. With a blend of ancient wisdom and contemporary practices, the book invites readers to expand their understanding of pleasure, connection, and self-discovery.

Sperm Wars by Robin Baker delves into the complex and fascinating world of human reproduction. By combining scientific research with real-life examples, Baker explores the concept of sperm competition and its evolutionary significance. From explaining the diversity of sexual behavior to challenging traditional views on monogamy, this book offers a thought-provoking and insightful analysis of human sexuality.

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns is a comprehensive guide to the world of BDSM. Written by Philip Miller and Molly Devon, this book delves into the psychology, techniques, and safety aspects of bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, and sadomasochism. It offers practical advice and real-life examples, making it an essential read for those interested in exploring this alternative lifestyle.

And the Band Played On by Randy Shilts is a groundbreaking work that chronicles the early days of the AIDS epidemic in the 1980s. Through extensive research and interviews, Shilts delves into the political, scientific, and social factors that contributed to the spread of the disease. This compelling book sheds light on the devastating impact of AIDS and the failure of various institutions to effectively respond to it.

The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida is a guide for men to fulfill their true potential and live a life of purpose and passion. It delves into topics such as relationships, career, and spirituality, offering insights and practical advice on how to navigate these aspects of life with integrity and authenticity.

My Horizontal Life is a memoir by Chelsea Handler that takes a humorous and candid look at her various sexual escapades and relationships. With her trademark wit and no-holds-barred storytelling, Handler shares entertaining and sometimes outrageous anecdotes that offer insights into her own life and the complexities of human connections.

Lolita is a novel by Vladimir Nabokov that delves into the controversial and taboo topic of a middle-aged man's obsession with a twelve-year-old girl. Through beautiful prose and intricate storytelling, Nabokov challenges the reader to confront their own moral boundaries and raises questions about the nature of love, desire, and the power dynamics in relationships.

Milk and Honey by Rupi Kaur is a collection of poetry and prose that explores themes of love, loss, trauma, and healing. Divided into four chapters, it takes the reader on a journey through the bitter and the sweet moments of life, ultimately offering a message of empowerment and self-discovery.

The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky is a poignant coming-of-age story that follows Charlie, a shy and introspective teenager. Through a series of letters, Charlie shares his experiences as he navigates high school, friendship, love, and loss. The book delves into themes of mental health, identity, and the complexities of growing up.

Middlesex is a novel by Jeffrey Eugenides that tells the story of Calliope Stephanides, a hermaphrodite who grows up in Detroit. The book explores themes of identity, family, and the immigrant experience, as Calliope navigates her unique journey towards self-discovery and acceptance.

The Color Purple by Alice Walker is a powerful novel that explores the lives of African American women in the early 20th century. Through the eyes of the protagonist, Celie, the book delves into themes of racism, sexism, and the power of female relationships. It is a poignant and thought-provoking read that has left a lasting impact on its readers.

The Purity Myth by Jessica Valenti challenges the notion of virginity and purity as a measure of a woman's worth. Valenti examines how these concepts are used to control women's bodies and perpetuate harmful stereotypes. She argues for a reevaluation of our cultural obsession with female chastity and a shift towards valuing women for their intelligence, accomplishments, and character.

Whipping Girl by Julia Serano explores the intersections of gender, sexism, and transphobia. Through personal anecdotes and insightful analysis, the book challenges traditional notions of femininity and masculinity, shedding light on the discrimination faced by transgender women. It offers a powerful critique of society's treatment of gender non-conforming individuals and advocates for a more inclusive and accepting world.

Sex God by Rob Bell discusses the intimate connection between spirituality and sexuality. Through thought-provoking ideas and personal anecdotes, Bell challenges traditional views on sex and invites readers to explore a deeper, more fulfilling understanding of both God and human relationships.

The Vagina Monologues by Eve Ensler is a groundbreaking collection of interviews, stories, and personal reflections that celebrate and explore the experiences of women. Through candid and fiercely honest monologues, the book addresses issues of sexuality, body image, violence, and empowerment, ultimately challenging societal norms and giving a voice to the often unheard stories of women.

Delusions of Gender by Cordelia Fine challenges the idea that there are innate differences between male and female brains. Through a combination of scientific research and critical analysis, Fine exposes the flawed assumptions and biases that have shaped our understanding of gender differences. This thought-provoking book invites readers to question long-held beliefs and consider the social and cultural factors that influence our perceptions of gender.

My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday is a groundbreaking exploration of female sexuality. Through a collection of real women's intimate fantasies and desires, Friday challenges societal taboos and sheds light on the complexity of women's inner lives. This book offers a candid and thought-provoking look at a subject often considered off-limits.

Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler is a comprehensive guide to understanding and tracking your menstrual cycle. It provides valuable information about fertility awareness and natural birth control methods, empowering women to take control of their reproductive health. With detailed explanations and practical tips, this book is a must-read for anyone interested in learning more about their own body.

'The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women' by Tristan Taormino is a comprehensive and sex-positive book that explores the art of anal pleasure. With a focus on inclusivity and empowerment, the book covers everything from anatomy and preparation to techniques and positions, providing essential information and practical tips for women interested in exploring this intimate aspect of their sexuality.

The ABC's of LGBT+ by Ashley Mardell is a comprehensive guide that explores the diverse and complex world of gender and sexuality. Through informative and accessible language, Mardell delves into topics such as coming out, gender identity, and the history of the LGBT+ community. This book is a valuable resource for anyone looking to better understand and support the LGBT+ individuals in their lives.

The Gifts of the Body by Rebecca Brown is a poignant and beautifully written novel that explores the experiences of a home care worker as she cares for individuals with terminal illnesses. Through intimate and heartfelt storytelling, the book delves into themes of compassion, resilience, and the profound connections we form with others in the face of adversity.

The Pleasure Plan by Laura Zam is a memoir that chronicles the author's journey to reclaim her sexuality and find pleasure after years of sexual dysfunction. Through honest and humorous storytelling, Zam explores the societal and personal factors that have shaped her relationship with sex, and ultimately offers a message of hope and empowerment for women everywhere.