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Maya Shankar
Who We Become When Life Makes Other Plans
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The Other Side of Change delves into the psychological aspects of navigating life's transitions, offering strategies to embrace uncertainty, transform challenges into growth opportunities, and foster resilience through insightful, evidence-based approaches.
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Denial can sometimes steady you until you can accept reality
In October of 2018, Olivia Lewis went to bed expecting an ordinary morning. Instead, she woke in the middle of the night to an intense jolt in her body, fell from her bed, and found she couldn’t move or call for help. Hours later, her roommate discovered her on the floor and called 911. When Olivia woke up in the hospital, she still couldn’t speak or move her body. Refusing to give up, her aunt found a way to reach her. Using an alphabet board and a series of blinks, letter by letter, Olivia found a way to communicate again.
Doctors explained that a brain-stem stroke had caused locked-in syndrome: Olivia’s mind was intact, but almost all voluntary movement was gone. When something this devastating happens, denial can sometimes act as a psychological life raft – and in Olivia's case, she clung to it with everything she had. She didn’t deny that she’d had a stroke. What she resisted was what it might mean for her future. She became fixated on the story of Kate Allatt, another locked-in stroke survivor who had recovered quickly. Olivia treated Kate’s recovery as a blueprint for her own, and that belief gave her the hope she needed to push through grueling rehabilitation.
But denial can become a problem when it ties us to a single outcome. Olivia avoided stories that challenged her expectations and grew frustrated when her progress didn't match the timeline she'd imagined. Beneath that frustration was a deeper fear. Before her stroke, after years of self-doubt, she had finally begun to feel accepted, confident, and good enough. The stroke threatened not only her future, but also the version of herself she had worked so hard to become.
A change of scenery helped. At an elite rehab center far from home, Olivia realized her therapists weren’t judging her the way she assumed others would. As she relaxed into being imperfect and vulnerable, she began building a sturdier identity – one grounded less in impressing people and more in what mattered in her new reality. Denial helped her survive the first shock, but acceptance became possible once her self-worth wasn’t dependent on returning to “Old Olivia.”
When your identity is grounded in values rather than outcomes, acceptance becomes less frightening – and far more sustainable.
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What is The Other Side of Change about?
The Other Side of Change (2026) explores how people rebuild their lives after sudden, unwanted turning points, using real stories and behavioral science to show why change can feel destabilizing – and how it can also spark growth. It examines the emotional and psychological patterns that surface in upheaval – like grief, identity shifts, and new values – and offers practical ways to navigate uncertainty and emerge with a clearer sense of who you’re becoming.
Who should read The Other Side of Change?
- Overwhelmed professionals facing sudden career upheaval
- Resilient caregivers navigating illness, loss, or burnout
- Anyone seeking meaning after life shifts
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