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Loung Ung
A Daughter of Cambodia Remembers
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First They Killed My Father by Loung Ung is a gripping memoir recounting the author's survival of the Khmer Rouge regime in Cambodia.
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Loung Ung's privileged childhood in Cambodia came to a sudden end when the Khmer Rouge entered the city.
For Loung Ung, the day that forever changed her life began like any other. The year was 1975, and she was five years old.
She was playing with her friends on the balcony of her family’s apartment. There was nothing out of the ordinary to speak of – but by the end of the afternoon, her old life would be but a distant memory.
Her middle-class family lived in Phnom Penh, Cambodia’s capital city. Her father was a high-ranking military official and, as a result, the family could live in comparative luxury, several stories up in a modern apartment block.
In contrast, Phnom Penh’s poor lived without modern conveniences in makeshift tents.
The author and her siblings were fortunate. Not only did they have the luxury of going to school six days a week, they also went to the cinema, ate out and regularly went shopping. Her father even drove a fancy Mazda sports car, a symbol of wealth and status that few in Cambodia at that time could afford.
But on that April day, from her family’s balcony, Ung saw a swarm of soldiers marching into the city.
Her father later told her that they were the Khmer Rouge. This Communist rebel army had been fighting a civil war against Cambodia’s incumbent, democratic government – and the rebels had just won. The Khmer Rouge’s form of communism demanded that Cambodian citizens should all live simple, peasant lives off the land.
The soldiers were equipped with megaphones. As they marched through the city, they hollered at people to leave its confines, or else they would be shot down.
When she went back inside the apartment, Ung witnessed her family throwing their possessions into suitcases. Within a few hours, she, her parents, her two sisters and her three brothers left their family home, never to return.
They piled into an old truck and made their way out of the city. They weren’t alone; tens of thousands of other city dwellers were also fleeing.
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What is First They Killed My Father about?
First They Killed My Father (2006) is Loung Ung’s memoir of her childhood experiences living under the brutal Khmer Rouge regime in Cambodia during the 1970s. She begins her story as the Khmer Rouge take power, forcing her family to flee the country’s capital, Phnom Penh, only to find themselves living as slave laborers, in constant fear that they would be personally targeted by the regime.
First They Killed My Father Review
First They Killed My Father (2000) is a harrowing but essential read, offering a firsthand account of life under the brutal Khmer Rouge regime. Here's why this book is so powerful:
We highly recommend First They Killed My Father to anyone seeking a deeper understanding of Cambodia's dark past.
- It provides a rare, personal perspective on a tragic chapter in history.
- The author's resilience and courage in the face of unimaginable adversity are truly inspiring.
- It serves as a poignant reminder of the human cost of war and genocide.
We highly recommend First They Killed My Father to anyone seeking a deeper understanding of Cambodia's dark past.
Best quote from First They Killed My Father
The author was just seven years old when she said goodbye to her mother.
—Loung Ung
Who should read First They Killed My Father?
- Anyone who’s seen the Oscar-winning film The Killings Fields
- History buffs
- Fans of autobiographies and memoirs
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First They Killed My Father FAQs
What is the main message of First They Killed My Father?
The main message of First They Killed My Father is the importance of resilience, courage, and the human spirit in the face of extreme adversity.
How long does it take to read First They Killed My Father?
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Is First They Killed My Father a good book? Is it worth reading?
First They Killed My Father is a powerful and gripping memoir that offers a rare, personal perspective on the Khmer Rouge regime.
Who is the author of First They Killed My Father?
The author of First They Killed My Father is Loung Ung.
How many chapters are in First They Killed My Father?
First They Killed My Father by Loung Ung has 27 chapters.
- Phnom Penh
- Takeo
- Ro Leap
- Krang Truop
- Anlungthmor
- Prayap
- Steung
- Ro Leap
- Krang Truop
- Anlungthmor
- Prayap
- Steung
- Ro Leap
- Krang Truop
- Anlungthmor
- Prayap
- Steung
- Ro Leap
- Krang Truop
- Anlungthmor
- Prayap
- Steung
- Ro Leap
- Krang Truop
- Anlungthmor
- Prayap
- Steung
How many pages are in First They Killed My Father?
First They Killed My Father has 288 pages.
When was First They Killed My Father published?
First They Killed My Father was published in 2000.
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