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Think Like a Stoic guides us through Stoic philosophy to enhance resilience and clarity in everyday life. Ken Mogi offers practical insights on embracing challenges, focusing on what we can control, and cultivating inner peace.
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We can’t control other people’s behavior, only how we respond to it
Around 160 CE, the Roman emperor Marcus Aurelius began keeping a journal. It was written for personal guidance rather than publication. Its entries are philosophical anchors: truths to steady a soul buffeted by life’s crosswinds and currents.
Marcus opens his Meditations with a thought he’s to repeat to himself each morning. “Today,” he says to himself, “I’ll meet gossips, bullies, cheats, and meddlers; some of them will be filled with envy and others will be resentful and rude. They’re like this because they don’t know the difference between what’s good and what’s bad.”
At first glance, this might sound like misanthropic grumbling. But it’s something quite different: a reframing of human behavior. The point is not that people are malicious, but that they are mistaken. This idea traces back to Socrates, who argued some 500 years earlier that no one does wrong willingly. Later, it was echoed in Christian thought in the plea to forgive those who “know not what they do.” For Stoics like Marcus, however, it serves a more practical purpose – it is a tool for maintaining inner tranquility, the foundation of a good life.
To see how this works, we need to turn to one of Stoicism’s central distinctions: what depends on us, and what does not. Our actions, judgments, and desires fall into the first category – they are within our control. Health, wealth, reputation, and external events belong to the second. Crucially, so does the behavior of other people – the very thing Marcus is preparing himself to encounter each morning.
Ideally, our fellows would always behave decently and do the right thing. In reality, they often don’t. We can try to influence them through instruction or force of example just as we try to influence our health by eating well and exercising. Ultimately, though, these things aren’t in our hands. To grasp this Stoic distinction is to see that decency, like fair weather, is a possibility, not a guarantee. Bemoaning its absence is like shaking your fist at a raincloud: neither rational nor very useful. We can choose suitable clothing for this metaphorical bad weather, though. The attitudes we take up and walk around with don’t have to add inner turmoil to outer disorder.
Put differently: if Stoicism can be seen as a kind of double-entry bookkeeping about agency, the actions of others fall squarely on the “not up to me” side of the ledger. The purpose of this accounting exercise isn’t to abandon moral standards, but to sharpen our sense of what we do control – and thus to help us see where true freedom lies.
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What is Think Like a Stoic about?
Think Like a Stoic (2025) is a guide to Stoicism written for a world crowded with noise, choice, stress, and stimulation. Drawing on ancient wisdom on topics as diverse as death, happiness, and the good life, it helps us reframe the problems we encounter in everyday life.
Who should read Think Like a Stoic?
- Anyone seeking calm in a distracted world
- Fans of Stoicism and practical philosophy
- Those interested in psychology and mindset
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