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Name: Take the Stairs
Author: Rory Vaden

Rory Vaden

7 Steps to Achieving True Success

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What’s in it for me? Build lasting success through self-discipline and smart choices.

Have you ever taken the escalator when you knew you should have taken the stairs? The easy glide upward feels tempting, right? You can just stand there and float to your destination. But in reality, it doesn’t provide the physical benefits or long-term satisfaction that the stairs do. This simple choice mirrors the trap most of us fall into – chasing shortcuts that promise immediate rewards but fail to deliver meaningful success.

In this Blink, you’ll learn why taking the escalator in life won’t lead to lasting success. Instead, the secret to achieving your goals, whether they’re personal or professional, is to embrace self-discipline and choose the more challenging, but ultimately more fulfilling path.

You’ll learn about the seven key strategies for mastering self-discipline, each one helping you to build a more successful and fulfilling life. The seven steps are sacrifice, commitment, focus, integrity, schedule, faith, and action. They’re the foundation for building habits that lead to real success. If you’re ready to make choices that bring long-term rewards, let’s dive in and explore how small decisions can create big results.

Sacrifice today leads to rewards tomorrow

A five-year-old boy worked all summer, mowing lawns and selling lemonade, to save up for a set of books. One day, his mother became sick, and he used his savings to help her instead. The story reached the author Rory Vaden, who was selling those books at the time. Moved by the boy’s heart, Vaden gifted him the books. This highlights an important truth: sacrifice creates value – you invest something now and build a better future.

The same principle applies when facing challenges. When cows see a storm rolling across the plains they run from it, prolonging their suffering. But buffalo face the storm head-on, minimizing their suffering. Just like cows, many people steer clear of problems hoping they’ll go away. The bad news? They don’t. The most successful people, like buffalo, tackle their challenges head-on. Yes, it feels harder at first, but you’ll solve problems faster and reduce future struggles.

You see, the decisions we make today often set the course for how we experience life tomorrow. We call this the pain paradox. You can take the easy route now – skipping the gym, spending impulsively, avoiding tough conversations – or you can face the challenge head-on, reaping greater benefits in the long run. Successful people recognize that postponing immediate rewards leads to smoother and more fulfilling results in the future.

Small decisions, whether in health, finances, or relationships, add up over time. For example, saving a little money regularly or making small but consistent healthy choices today builds up to larger rewards in the future. In the same way, neglecting responsibilities can lead to bigger problems. The earlier you make smart choices – whether it’s investing, exercising, or nurturing relationships – the bigger the payoff will be down the road.

Sacrifice means investment. Remember the boy who helped his mother? His true reward extended far beyond the books – he built character and strengthened family bonds. Similarly, the choices you make now, whether big or small, are investments in your future that will bring far more lasting rewards than any short-term pleasures.

The power of commitment

Bob accidentally drops a $5 bill into the urinal, but then throws in a $50 bill. Why? It makes the task of retrieving the $5 feel worthwhile. This demonstrates the buy-in principle – greater emotional involvement makes it increasingly difficult to disengage. The same pattern shows up in careers, relationships, and goals. As you increase your commitment, you hit pivotal moments – those critical times when doubt tempts you to quit, yet pushing through leads to success.

True commitment requires more than effort – it needs you to overcome hesitation. Doubt can interfere with progress, and when uncertainty sets in, it halts your momentum. The real shift occurs when you stop asking if it’s possible and start focusing on how you will make it succeed. This transformation in thinking is what differentiates the achievers from those who give up.

Focus is the key to success

In 2005, Vaden set a goal to become a prominent public speaker, aiming to influence and inspire others through his words. After entering a Toastmasters competition and receiving guidance from a man named Eric Chester, he completed 304 free talks, improving his presentation skills with each one. His commitment turned his vision into reality.

The main barrier to focus isn’t laziness, but procrastination. This occurs when you delay important activities, like avoiding exercise while focusing on less critical work. Creative avoidance, on the other hand, happens when you spend time on tasks that seem efficient – like responding to emails or tidying up – yet produce no real results. Priority dilution happens when you become distracted by tasks that seem urgent but are ultimately trivial, losing sight of what’s most important. Without clear decisions on how to spend your time, external distractions will inevitably fill that space.

Integrity is the foundation of success

As a young boy, Vaden turned to his mother with a question that had been bothering him – why didn’t he have a father like other children? Her reply was surprising – if he wanted a father figure, he’d have to seek one out. Determined to take on the challenge, he made a firm decision to do just that. Later that day, he started training at a new martial arts school, where he was introduced to Kevin, a tough-looking man with tattoos and a love for motorcycles. As time went on, Kevin formed a strong bond with both Vaden and his mother. Eventually, their relationship deepened, leading to marriage and formal adoption. Without realizing it, his words had initiated a series of events that would permanently shape his life.

This story shows us something remarkable about words – they shape reality. The creation principle follows a clear pattern – ideas form in your mind, are spoken into existence, and materialize through action. No significant accomplishment happens without first voicing an intention to pursue it – whether in career, relationships, or personal growth. Staying true to your word is more than a principle – it’s the foundation for real success. Without it, success remains out of reach.

Life has seasons, schedule for the right one

During harvest season, farmers have no choice but to work long hours because their survival depends on it. The key isn’t just effort; it’s working at the right time. The same goes for everything in life: sometimes you push hard in one area, and other times you ease up and focus on something else. Life has different seasons, and recognizing when to focus on work, family, health, or personal growth is key to success.

This natural rhythm teaches us that trying to balance everything evenly doesn’t work. Rather than questioning whether you spend enough time on something, consider whether you’re working on it at the most effective time. Making short-term sacrifices can lead to greater long-term benefits. Vaden paid off $45,000 in two years by focusing on work and cutting costs. Later he lost 40 pounds by making health a priority. Each achievement came from giving his full focus to one goal during a specific season of his life.

Faith helps you see the bigger picture

When life feels overwhelming, taking a broader view makes even the most difficult situations seem much smaller. What feels like a major issue today often fades away when placed in the context of an entire lifetime. The way we view our struggles shapes the way we handle them.

This broader perspective connects directly to faith. And faith is something that extends beyond religion – it also means trusting that today’s efforts will create a better future, even if the results aren’t immediate. Faith helps you stay disciplined, focusing on long-term rewards instead of giving in to short-term desires. Without it, making the right choices can feel nearly impossible.

Action reveals your true beliefs and drives results

When Vaden was at school, a physics professor once introduced the concept of the pendulum to his class. He explained that once a pendulum is released, it can’t swing back higher than its starting point. After showing the class a quick demonstration, he asked them if they were convinced by the principle. They all agreed. To test this belief, he invited Vaden to participate in a more extreme version of the experiment. Vaden sat on a chair while the professor brought over a large pendulum, its three hefty weights, right in front of his face. If the law was correct, the pendulum wouldn’t swing back far enough to hit him. When the professor released it, the weights swung forward and then came rushing back. In that instant, rather than staying still, Vaden instinctively jumped out of his chair.

This demonstrates the difference between having knowledge and actually acting upon it. Many people say they value discipline, personal development, or success, yet their true beliefs are reflected in their choices, not just their words. An effective way to understand priorities is by looking at how you allocate your time and resources.

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What is Take the Stairs about?

Take the Stairs (2012) presents a practical guide to achieving success by embracing self-discipline and focus rather than relying on shortcuts and quick fixes. It outlines a simple program for resisting distractions, overcoming procrastination, and pushing past setbacks to achieve long-term goals. The proven approach encourages you to tackle challenges step by step to build lasting success.

Who should read Take the Stairs?

Individuals seeking personal development and self-discipline
Young professionals looking for career growth
Entrepreneurs and students striving for success

About the Author

Rory Vaden is a New York Times best-selling author, Hall of Fame speaker, and 8-figure entrepreneur. He’s the cofounder of Brand Builders Group and a recognized expert on the psychology of influence, which he defines as the ability to inspire action in ourselves and others. Vaden’s other best-selling books include Procrastinate on Purpose, and Be The Buffalo. His work has featured in top publications like Forbes, Inc., and the Wall Street Journal.

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