He’s Just Not That Into You summary

The beginning of a relationship is always extremely confusing. When a guy and girl have been seeing each other for a while, the same question arises: “Are we boyfriend and girlfriend?”

In a lot of cases, if a guy starts regularly spending time with a girl, or sleeping with her on a frequent basis, she’ll often start to think they’re heading toward boyfriend/girlfriend territory. Some women tend to think this even after a guy has explicitly said he doesn’t want a girlfriend.

When men cheat, they often have a plethora of excuses to choose from: you gained weight, my sex drive is higher than yours, I’m just not attracted to you in the same way. Most women take these excuses to heart, absolve the man in question from blame and instead blame themselves – but this isn’t how they should react at all!

If he’s having sex with another woman, he’s just not that into you. In fact, he’s being completely disrespectful.

When someone breaks up with you, it’s common to hope that they’ll call you up just to tell you how much they miss you. You can end up fixating on this idea so much that you convince yourself that your ex is still interested in you.

But if they do make contact, the best thing you can do is hang up and move on with your life. In the end, the cold, hard truth is that if a man has broken up with you, even if he calls, texts or emails, he’s still not necessarily into you.

“He’s not ready yet” or “Money’s really tight at the moment” are just two of the excuses some women make for their partners when they show no interest in tying the knot.  

A man may even tell you that he has “issues” with the institution of marriage to worm his way out of the situation. But whichever way he explains himself, or whatever excuses you concoct for him, if a guy who’s been in a stable, long-term relationship says he’s not ready for marriage, what he’s really saying is that he’s not sure he wants to marry you.  

So, you’ve worked up the courage to let go of the guy who’s just not that into you. Maybe you’ve treated yourself to luxurious bubble baths or some chocolate to make yourself feel better, which is a great way to spend your time.

However, during this stage, some women find themselves preoccupied with thoughts and activities that are a waste of time. A lot of women end up indulging in happily-ever-after stories that aren’t healthy or realistic.