How to Get What You Want from Men: Love, Respect, Commitment and More!
When it comes to forming healthy relationships, you should always start with the most important person in your life – you! And that’s because the way you think about yourself influences the way that others treat you.
How we perceive ourselves is completely up to us. When our self-esteem is low, we’re choosing to let other people tell us what we’re worth. When we love and value ourselves, others will too.
If you know in your heart that you’re worthy of everything you want in life, you’ll get it. Remember, confidence is key. And the best part of being confident? It frees you from the weight of other people’s opinions.
The bottom line is that being a woman is a gift. And as a woman, you have the power to transform your life – you just need to learn how.
The first lesson on this journey will probably be the most difficult to grasp. Why? Because it goes against what many of us are told is our very nature as women. That being said, it’s an important part of changing the way you think about relationships. What is this crucial skill? The ability to control your emotions.
Any woman who’s been in the dating pool knows that there are men who’ll prey on a woman’s emotional nature to get what they want. But if you have a handle on your emotions, you limit how much these men can influence your actions.
Let’s look at a classic example – a guy breaks your heart by cheating on you. Any logical person would flip him the bird and move on with their life. But strong emotions can lead you to make excuses for someone’s bad behavior – even when you know it’s wrong.
The easy part is recognizing when emotions are in the driver’s seat. The hard part is controlling them. When you feel them taking over, have an honest conversation with yourself. Acknowledge your feelings, but don’t give in to them. Make a conscious effort to move forward with your head, not your heart. What decision is truly best for you and your future?
This isn’t to say that you should shut off your emotions completely. In fact, you can bet that they’ll still be there even after you make the logical choice. Like any wound, leave them alone until they’re healed.
Being emotional isn’t a bad thing – according to the author, it’s part of what makes women special. But emotions that impact your decision-making can get you into trouble. Mastering your emotions will put the power back in your hands.
The Power of the Pussy (2014) shares the twelve secret “powers” that women can use to transform their lives by changing the ways they perceive men and dating. Through straight-forward advice and positive encouragement, author Kara King gives readers tools to break the cycle of bad relationships and create the life they want with the man of their dreams.
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Blink 3 von 12 - Eine kurze Geschichte der Menschheit
von Yuval Noah Harari
