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by Robin Sharma
Unmentionable by Therese Oneill is a humorous and informative look at the dirty, uncomfortable, and often dangerous aspects of 19th century women's lives. It delves into the untold truths of hygiene, fashion, and social expectations.
In Unmentionable by Therese Oneill, we are taken on an eye-opening journey through the intricate and often unspoken aspects of Victorian-era womanhood. The book begins with a stark contrast between the romanticized image of the Victorian era and the harsh reality faced by women of the time. Oneill emphasizes that the era was not all about genteel manners and luxurious ball gowns, but rather about the daily struggle to meet societal expectations.
One of the first unmentionables that Oneill addresses is the matter of hygiene. She delves into the lack of proper sanitation and the use of toxic substances in everyday products. Women, for instance, used arsenic-laced face powders and lead-based make-up, which caused severe health issues. The author also discusses the impracticality of women's fashion, highlighting the discomfort and health hazards associated with tight corsets, voluminous skirts, and restrictive undergarments.
One of the most fascinating sections of the book is the detailed account of Victorian undergarments. Oneill describes the layers of clothing that women were expected to wear, including chemises, drawers, corsets, petticoats, and more. She explains the intricate process of dressing and the physical constraints these garments imposed on women, emphasizing the societal expectation of a tiny waist and the extreme measures women took to achieve it.
Furthermore, Oneill explores the taboo topic of menstruation, or as it was referred to in the Victorian era, 'the curse.' She discusses the lack of suitable sanitary products and the prevailing belief that menstruation rendered women physically and mentally unfit. The book also covers the Victorian attitude towards sexual health, which was steeped in ignorance and often led to dangerous practices.
The societal pressure on Victorian women to marry and bear children is another unmentionable that Oneill brings to light. She discusses the harsh realities of marriage during this time, including the lack of legal rights for married women, the expectation of complete submission to their husbands, and the high rates of domestic abuse. The author also explores the dangers of childbirth and the high maternal mortality rates, shedding light on the grim aspects of motherhood in the Victorian era.
Oneill further uncovers the unspoken truths of Victorian sexual relations, including the myth of female sexual passivity and the double standards regarding men's and women's sexual behavior. She also discusses the practice of wet nursing, which was common among the upper classes, resulting in the separation of mothers from their infants.
In conclusion, Unmentionable provides a candid and often shocking portrayal of Victorian womanhood. Oneill's meticulous research and engaging writing style bring to life the unglamorous realities faced by women of the era. The book serves as a reminder of the progress made in women's rights, health, and societal status, while also highlighting the ongoing challenges that women face. It prompts us to reflect on the unspoken aspects of our own society and the importance of addressing them openly and honestly.
Unmentionable by Therese Oneill is a fascinating and humorous look at the hidden aspects of Victorian life. From the uncomfortable clothing to the lack of personal hygiene, this book uncovers the unspoken truths of the time. It offers a unique perspective on an era often romanticized in literature and media.
Anyone with a curious mind and a sense of humor
History enthusiasts who want to explore the untold stories of the past
Readers who enjoy a witty and irreverent take on social norms and taboos
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