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Jennifer Mann & Karden Rabin

Regulate Your Nervous System, Heal Your Body, Free Your Mind

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The Secret Language of the Body delves into the profound connections between our physical health and emotional well-being, offering insights and techniques to understand and heal the body through the interpretation of its symptoms and messages.

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    Awareness

    At the core of self-regulating, healing, and freeing lies the powerful principle of awareness. Awareness in the context of holistic health is about engaging actively with your own mind, body, and whole being. In doing so, you transform a passive existence into an enlightened, proactive journey toward alignment and well-being.

    Starting with the mind, awareness centers around acknowledging that you are primarily a feeling being rather than a thinking being. By tuning into your body’s BASE signals – your breath, actions, sensations, and emotions – you can begin to decode what your nervous system seeks to communicate. Often, your mind misinterprets what your body is experiencing, leading you to react based on flawed perceptions. But by actively listening to your BASE signals without censorship or judgment, you can shift from a state of mental and physical dysregulation to one of regulation. This process isn’t just about quieting your internal chatter but making it a cooperative player in managing your body’s response to stress.

    Applying awareness to the body, it soon becomes clear that your nervous system strives to keep you safe but operates below the level of your conscious awareness. This automatic, survival-driven functioning, known as neuroception, dictates how you react to perceived threats with a hierarchy of responses. This hierarchy is explained by the polyvagal theory, which says you’ll move from a ventral vagal state of “rest and digest” to a sympathetic state of “fight or flight” to a dorsal vagal state of “freeze” as your exposure to stress increases. Understanding these responses and recognizing them as they occur enables you to interpret what your body is really saying beyond the surface-level symptoms. That’s why it’s crucial to view these symptoms not as signs of dysfunction but as part of an innate survival strategy. By promptly identifying the underlying survival state driving your body’s reactions, you can return to the ventral vagal state more easily and once again feel safe, relaxed, and engaged.

    Finally, awareness extends to the context of your being, which is influenced heavily by the people who raised you and the environment you grew up in. The behaviors modeled to you during your formative years shape your nervous system’s responses to stress, often embedding deep-seated patterns that influence your emotional stability throughout life. By attuning to these learned behaviors and understanding their origins – commonly traced back to childhood – you can begin to heal. This could involve, for instance, stepping into an objective, observing self to recognize your triggers, connect with your inner child, and address the root causes of your dysregulation.

    Ultimately, the practice of awareness is about establishing a more harmonious dialogue between your mind, body, and being. It’s about transcending mere symptom management to foster a deep, intuitive understanding of and reaction to life’s stresses. By integrating this awareness into your daily life, you’ll not only improve your ability to self-regulate but also start to take steps toward a more balanced and fulfilling existence.

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    What is The Secret Language of the Body about?

    The Secret Language of the Body (2024) explores the nuanced ways our bodies communicate internal imbalances, linking physical symptoms to emotional and psychological stresses. Through actionable strategies and insights, it empowers you to interpret and address your body’s signals to regulate your nervous system and improve your overall health.

    Who should read The Secret Language of the Body?

    • Individuals struggling with chronic stress, pain, or illness 
    • Health professionals interested in holistic healing approaches 
    • Students studying alternative medicine or psychotherapy

    About the Author

    Jennifer Mann is the cofounder of holistic health platform Somia International, and the cocreator of the Heal Program. Her work in the field of holistic health has been featured in the Telegraph and on mindbodygreen.com. 

    Karden Rabin is the cofounder of Somia International and cocreator of the Heal Program. Rabin has led somatic therapy courses for the Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health, Starbucks, and The Wounded Warrior Project.

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