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Priya Parker
How We Meet and Why It Matters
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The Art of Gathering
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Gatherings are important to the human experience, but too often we don’t give them much thought.
We spend our lives gathering – first in our families, with friends, in playgroups and at schools. Then, with adult life, come weddings, business meetings, class reunions and dinner parties. And as our lives end, our families and loved ones gather at our funerals.
Gatherings are a huge part of life, and they’re a part of the human experience. But the time we spend in them is often underwhelming and uninspiring.
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Introduction
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Gatherings are important to the human experience, but too often we don’t give them much thought.
- 2
Committing to a clear purpose for your gathering is the first step to making it great.
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Being willing to exclude people is a key step toward building a meaningful gathering.
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Hosts who act with generous authority will always deliver better events than hosts who are overly laid-back.
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Having explicit rules for your events can be surprisingly liberating.
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Priming your guests well and honoring them on arrival will help get your gathering off to a great start.
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It’s possible to design your gatherings so that they encourage people to bring out their authentic selves.
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Too many events fizzle out rather than ending with a bang, but there are simple ways to end gatherings well.
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What is The Art of Gathering about?
In The Art of Gathering (2018), Priya Parker argues that the gatherings in our lives – from business meetings to dinner parties – are lackluster, routine and lacking in purpose. Parker sets out a bold new approach to gathering that focuses on distinctiveness, purpose and real human connection, and shows how simple steps can invigorate any gathering of people.
Best quote from The Art of Gathering
Gathering – the conscious bringing together of people for a reason – shapes the way we think, feel, and make sense of our world.
—Priya Parker
Who should read The Art of Gathering?
- Anyone who’d like to create better, more impactful parties or events
- People interested in how to use gatherings to make real human connections.
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