John M. Gottman Books
John M. Gottman is a psychology professor at the University of Washington and co-founder and co-director of the Seattle Marital and Family Institute. His research into romantic couples has spanned 40 years and he has earned several prestigious academic awards for his work.
Nan Silver is a blogger, journalist and a New York Times-bestselling author. She has also been editor-in-chief of Health and a contributing editor at Parents magazine.
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
What's The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work about?
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work (1999) draws on data from relationship studies and interviews to do exactly what it promises in its title. These blinks take you through the key changes you can make to overcome the common problems that damage relationships and build a supportive, romantic marriage.
Who should read The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work?
- Couples who want to get the best out of their romantic relationship
- Newlyweds who want a harmonious, long-lasting marriage
- Anyone going through or considering divorce
Eight Dates
What's Eight Dates about?
Eight Dates (2019) helps couples navigate the ups and downs of a relationship. Whether you’ve been married for years or have just met the love of your life, the bedrock of any relationship is quality conversation. Uncover your partner’s innermost needs and desires by going out on the eight themed dates set out by the authors in this book. But don’t stop there – the wisdom from these eight recommended dates can be applied to any date you and your partner go on.
Who should read Eight Dates?
- Anyone in a relationship
- Couples looking to bring romance back into their relationship
- Aspiring couples therapists or psychology students
The Relationship Cure
What's The Relationship Cure about?
The Relationship Cure (2002) prescribes a surprisingly simple solution to the problems that ail many of our relationships. Drawing on psychologist John M. Gottman’s extensive research, its insights and tips are equally applicable to relationships between romantic partners, friends, family members, and coworkers.
Who should read The Relationship Cure?
- Couples experiencing relationship problems
- People looking for ways to get closer to their friends, coworkers, or family members
- Anyone wanting to improve their communication and relationship-building skills
The Love Prescription
What's The Love Prescription about?
The Love Prescription (2022) is a practical guide to creating more intimacy and connection in romantic relationships. Based on 40 years of research, the authors offer simple actionable advice that will help couples in any phase of their relationship.
Who should read The Love Prescription?
- Busy people struggling to find time for their relationship
- Couples who feel the spark has gone
- Anyone who wants to know how to make love last
The Man's Guide to Women
What's The Man's Guide to Women about?
The Man’s Guide to Women (2016) is a comprehensive and scientifically backed look into the mind, emotions, and habits of women. Drawing on decades of research, it examines the hidden and not so hidden factors that drive women’s behavior and leave many men perplexed. Whether you’re married, dating, or just looking to better understand the women in your life, there’s always room to learn and add a little more compassion into your relationships.
Who should read The Man's Guide to Women?
- Romance-seekers who are terrified at the thought of wooing a woman
- Married or committed men looking to better connect with their female partner
- Anyone who wants a healthier relationship with the women in their lives
Fight Right
What's Fight Right about?
Fight Right (2024) offers invaluable findings from extensive research on conflict resolution in relationships. Here, you’ll find practical strategies to avoid common mistakes during conflict, which will enable you to foster deeper connection and lasting love. Compelling case studies and international research demonstrate that even struggling couples can heal and strengthen their relationship dynamics with the right tools and guidance.
Who should read Fight Right?
- Couples who find themselves fighting repeatedly over the same trivial things
- Couples who never fight, and are wondering if that’s really such a good thing
- Couples coming out of the honeymoon phase and confronting relationship conflict for the first time