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She Comes First
The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
She Comes First (2004) is a guide to improving a woman’s sexual experience through the act of cunnilingus. It emphasizes the value of the female orgasm and argues for a reduced focus on penetration.
- People intent on becoming a better lover
- Anyone wanting to improve their cunnilingus skills
- Those interested in female biology
Ian Kerner has a PhD in sexology and is a licensed psychotherapist who specializes in sex therapy. He founded the site goodinbed.com, which collects insights from leading sex and relationship experts. He has also written He Comes Next: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man.
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