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She Comes First

The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

By Ian Kerner, PhD
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She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner, PhD

She Comes First (2004) is a guide to improving a woman’s sexual experience through the act of cunnilingus. It emphasizes the value of the female orgasm and argues for a reduced focus on penetration.

  • People intent on becoming a better lover
  • Anyone wanting to improve their cunnilingus skills
  • Those interested in female biology

Ian Kerner has a PhD in sexology and is a licensed psychotherapist who specializes in sex therapy. He founded the site, which collects insights from leading sex and relationship experts. He has also written He Comes Next: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man.

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