Ian Kerner Books

Ian Kerner has a PhD in sexology and is a licensed psychotherapist who specializes in sex therapy. He founded the site goodinbed.com, which collects insights from leading sex and relationship experts. He has also written He Comes Next: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man.

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 Books: She Comes First by Ian Kerner

She Comes First

Ian Kerner
The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
4.5 (993 ratings)
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What's She Comes First about?

She Comes First (2004) is a guide to improving a woman’s sexual experience through the act of cunnilingus. It emphasizes the value of the female orgasm and argues for a reduced focus on penetration.

Who should read She Comes First?

  • People intent on becoming a better lover
  • Anyone wanting to improve their cunnilingus skills
  • Those interested in female biology

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 Books: He Comes Next by Ian Kerner

He Comes Next

Ian Kerner
The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man
4.5 (409 ratings)
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What's He Comes Next about?

He Comes Next (2006) is the ultimate guide to understanding the desires of men and the intricacies of their sexual response process. This understanding that can help bring more pleasure than your male sexual partner has ever experienced before. These are tips that can help you touch his heart and know what to do when you’re touching his other parts.

Who should read He Comes Next?

  • Couples who want to improve their love life
  • Readers hoping to send their male partners into sexual ecstasy
  • Men who are curious about their sexual topography

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 Books: Passionista by Ian Kerner

Passionista

Ian Kerner
The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man
3.9 (112 ratings)
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What's Passionista about?

Passionista (2008) is a guide to understanding male sexuality and satisfaction. It offers answers to the questions partners may have – and shows that giving pleasure can be just as fun as receiving it. 

Who should read Passionista?

  • Women looking to better pleasure their man
  • Couples who want to deepen their sex life
  • Those who want to enjoy sex to the fullest