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Blink 3 of 8 - The 5 AM Club
by Robin Sharma
5 Chairs 5 Choices by Louise Evans is a self-help book that offers practical tools and techniques to make better decisions and navigate challenging situations in our personal and professional lives.
In the book 5 Chairs 5 Choices by Louise Evans, we delve into a story about the five predominant behaviors humans exhibit. Evans introduces us to the '5 Chairs’, representations of attitudes and reactions: the Jackal, the Hedgehog, the Meerkat, the Dolphin, and the Owl. Each chair, she explains, corresponds to a unique human characteristic rooted in our animal instincts.
The Jackal chair, for example, stands for aggression and dominance, depicting a conversation style that is authoritarian and individualistic. The Hedgehog chair, on the other hand, represents defensiveness and avoidance. The Meerkat chair stands for alertness and stress. The Dolphin chair depicts playfulness and social bonding, while the Owl chair embodies wisdom and calmness.
Evans goes on to demonstrate how these chairs interact with each other, creating a flow of behaviors that dictate our relationships and conversations. It's our choice, she argues, which chair we decide to sit in and the attitudes we consequently adopt. Each choice shapes our interactions, influencing our communication and relationships.
We learn that alternating between the chairs can be complex and unsettling. Yet, if we stay stuck in one chair, we risk becoming inflexible and uncompromising. Multifaceted as we are, we have the potential to embrace all chairs, responding flexibly and appropriately to the situation at hand.
Expanding on the role of choice, Evans magnifies how our chair choice reflects on our self-perception, our perception of others, and our communication strategies. With each chair, we're shown different communication styles, ranging from aggressive to defensive, alert to playful, and wise.
Your choice of chair, she suggests, should not be determined by impulse but by thoughtful consideration. If we can learn to control our instinctive reactions and conduce more mindful responses, we allow growth both in ourselves and in our relationships.
In the latter half of 5 Chairs 5 Choices, Evans espouses the virtues of the Owl chair. This chair, she explains, symbolizes wisdom and serenity, inviting us to listen more and judge less. By channeling our inner Owl, we encourage open and constructive communication, fostering healthier and more fulfilling relationships.
Finally, Evans reminds us that while we certainly can't control the behaviors and reactions of those around us, we can control our own. Each morning as we prepare for the day, we have the power to choose which chair we're going to sit in. This ongoing practice is, she suggests, our secret to achieving empathy, understanding, and true communication success.
5 Chairs 5 Choices by Louise Evans is a practical guide that helps individuals navigate difficult conversations and make better decisions. Using the metaphor of five different imaginary chairs, the book offers strategies and techniques to enhance communication skills and resolve conflicts effectively. With real-life examples and actionable advice, it empowers readers to take ownership of their choices and create more harmonious relationships.
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by Robin Sharma