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Neha Ruch

Planning a Career Break After Kids – And Coming Back Stronger

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The Power Pause by Neha Ruch guides us in leveraging intentional breaks for personal growth and clarity, highlighting how pausing can help us realign priorities, foster productivity, and enhance our well-being in a fast-paced world.

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    Embracing motherhood to redefine your identity

    Imagine being asked, “What do you do?” and feeling your usual answer – the one tied to your career – slip away. Without a title to define you, it’s easy to feel adrift. For many women stepping away from paid work to focus on motherhood, this question reveals how much identity has been tied to professional status. But taking a pause doesn’t mean losing your ambition or your sense of self – it’s an opportunity to expand and redefine both.

    Many women fear that leaving a job means becoming irrelevant or invisible. This mindset is shaped by outdated cultural stereotypes that portray stay-at-home mothers as unambitious or limited. However, history shows that mothers have always worked in some capacity, whether on family farms or as part of the industrial workforce. The modern archetype of the stay-at-home mom – dependent and confined – was largely a product of post-World War II media, not reality. Understanding this context can help you see that stepping back from a career doesn’t mean stepping back from your values, skills, or aspirations.

    If you’re struggling to let go of a title or job identity, start by acknowledging the sense of loss. It’s normal to grieve the part of yourself tied to your work. But remember, careers aren’t linear. Your professional past is still part of you, and your pause can add a valuable new dimension to your personal and professional life. Think of your career as a portfolio of skills and experiences rather than a single trajectory.

    You can also bring elements of your professional identity into motherhood. Skills like problem-solving, communication, and empathy are just as relevant at home as they are in the workplace. Allow yourself to grow in this role and embrace new parts of your personality that emerge, whether it’s a sense of humor or a newfound patience.

    So, when answering “What do you do?” frame your pause with confidence. Try something like, “Right now, I’m focused on family, but I’m also exploring new opportunities.” This clarity shows that you’re still ambitious, just in a different way. By redefining success to include family life, you can build a more balanced, sustainable identity that reflects your values.

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    What is The Power Pause about?

    The Power Pause (2025) explores how women can navigate career breaks after motherhood with intention and confidence. It offers practical advice, personal stories, and strategies to help navigate the challenges of pausing a career, finding purpose in new roles, and planning a successful return to work. Through its thoughtful insights, it empowers women to embrace the pause as a powerful choice rather than a setback.

    Who should read The Power Pause?

    • Ambitious mothers planning a temporary career pause
    • Supportive partners seeking to understand career breaks
    • Anyone exploring modern motherhood and careers

    About the Author

    Neha Ruch is the founder of Mother Untitled, a platform dedicated to empowering women who take career breaks for motherhood. A Stanford MBA graduate, she shifted her focus to family in 2016 and has since become a thought leader and sought-after speaker on women, work, parenting, and identity. Her work challenges outdated perceptions of stay-at-home motherhood, offering a modern perspective on balancing ambition and family.

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