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Getting Happiness Right in a World That's Got It Wrong
New Happy by Stephanie Harrison redefines happiness, focusing on meaningful connections and personal fulfillment rather than material success. It provides actionable steps to cultivate authentic joy and transform our outlook on life.
Every action, goal, and decision we make aims at achieving happiness. But have you ever stopped to think about what happiness truly means to you?
Many people adopt society's definition of happiness without realizing it. Society tells us that happiness comes from achieving perfection, earning more money, and acquiring material possessions. In reality, research shows that these pursuits often lead to dissatisfaction and unhappiness. The pressure to be perfect, to constantly achieve, and to compete with others creates stress and loneliness rather than happiness.
In Dickens’s A Christmas Carol, Ebenezer Scrooge’s pursuit of wealth and success leaves him isolated and miserable. It isn’t until he redefines his understanding of happiness – shifting from selfish pursuits to valuing connection and generosity – that he finds true joy. This reminds us that our definition of happiness deeply influences our well-being.
Society teaches us what to value from a very young age, shaping our worldview and affecting our behavior and decisions. Central to this worldview are three questions: Who am I? What should I do? and How am I related to others? The answers we’re taught often tell us that we’re lacking something, that we need to achieve certain outcomes, and that we are separate from others. And so we arrive at what the author calls “Old Happy”, which promotes the idea that individual success, material wealth, and competition are the keys to happiness.
You have the power to redefine your understanding of happiness. By recognizing and naming the outdated beliefs of Old Happy, you can create space for true, “New Happy”. Start by observing when these old beliefs arise – whether it’s the voice in your head criticizing you or societal pressures to conform. Acknowledge them, but don’t let them dictate your actions.
True happiness comes from discovering who you are and using your unique gifts to help others. You don’t need to overhaul your entire life to find it. It starts with a single, conscious choice to pursue what genuinely matters to you. This choice not only benefits you but also positively impacts those around you.
Your happiness can also change the world. Small, consistent actions can lead to significant social change, creating a world where everyone is valued, connected, and fulfilled. You don’t need to quit your job or radically change your life. Begin by making choices aligned with your true self and the well-being of others.
To find and cultivate lasting happiness, follow the steps outlined in the coming sections. First up is transforming your worldview from old happy to a new, more fulfilling perspective.
New Happy (2024) challenges the conventional notion that personal success leads to happiness, revealing that true joy comes from helping others and living a life of purpose. Through a blend of art and science, it guides you to dismantle society’s false definition of happiness, uncover your unique gifts, and use them to improve both your life and the world around you.
New Happy by Stephanie Harrison (2022) inspires readers to cultivate genuine happiness in their lives. Here's why this book is worth your time:
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The main message of New Happy is finding joy and contentment by embracing positivity in everyday life.
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Who is the author of New Happy?
Stephanie Harrison is the author of New Happy.