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Ferdinand Mount
A History of Sentimentality
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Soft by Ferdinand Mount investigates the rise of tenderness in modern society, exploring how empathy and kindness have reshaped human interaction and values, shaping a gentler, more inclusive world.
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The first sentimental revolution
Love is love, we say today. But was it always love? It turns out that our modern conception of love is actually a fairly new invention.
When ancient Greek and Roman writers told stories of love, they treated it as a dangerous affliction sent by capricious gods – something that destroyed heroes rather than ennobled them. Warriors sought glory in combat and loyalty among comrades. Romance? That was barely worth mentioning.
Then, around 1100 AD in southern France, a group of wandering poets called troubadours came up with a revolutionary idea that seems completely natural to us today: that falling in love could be the most meaningful thing a person ever experiences.
These poets created an entirely new literary vocabulary. Their songs portrayed love as an all-consuming force that gave life its purpose. Author C.S. Lewis called this “one of the real changes in human sentiment” in recorded history.
Take the medieval tale of Lancelot and Guinevere. When Lancelot receives a comb still tangled with the queen’s hair, he repeatedly presses each strand to different parts of his face in an act of near-worship, then tucks them inside his clothing directly over his chest. This kind of obsessive physical devotion to a lover’s remnants would have baffled earlier generations.
The emotional transformation extended also into religious life. Crucifixes from earlier centuries showed Jesus standing upright with open eyes, radiating divine power. By the 13th century, artists depicted his suffering in unflinching detail – twisted limbs, visible wounds, faces contorted in agony. Europeans wept freely at masses, processions, and public events. Displaying intense emotion became a sign of spiritual depth rather than weakness.
Perhaps most surprisingly, this sentimental turn produced tangible political benefits. King Henry III of England exemplified the new sensibility. While military leaders derided him as ineffectual, he personally cared for lepers, funded hospitals nationwide, and maintained a daily welfare program feeding hundreds. While critics expected disaster, his compassion-driven approach achieved stability that eluded more aggressive rulers. His peaceful diplomacy secured lasting treaties, the nation’s economy flourished dramatically, and early forms of representative government emerged.
The troubadours catalyzed a fundamental shift in how Western culture understood emotion – showing that openness and empathy could be sources of strength rather than vulnerability.
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What is Soft about?
Soft (2025) traces how feelings have shaped Western civilization across a thousand years, from medieval poetry to contemporary reforms on divorce, gay marriage and abortion. Through vivid historical analysis, this exploration shows how sentimentality in art and culture, despite being dismissed as weak or manipulative, has quietly driven social and political progress.
Who should read Soft?
- History enthusiasts curious about how human emotions and social attitudes have evolved over centuries
- Art lovers who enjoy exploring connections between artistic expression and broader cultural shifts
- Anyone interested in cultural criticism and understanding contemporary debates about sensitivity and "wokeness" through a historical lens
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