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Name: Raising Men
Rating: 4.2 (93 reviews)
Author: Eric Davis

Eric Davis

From Fathers to Sons—Life Lessons from Navy SEAL Training

4.2 (93 ratings)

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Raising Men by Eric Davis is a guide for fathers on how to raise strong, confident, and respectful sons. Drawing from his experience as a Navy SEAL and father, Davis provides actionable advice on topics such as discipline, communication, and leadership.

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What’s in it for me? Create unbreakable father-son bonds and raise confident, brave men.

They say that it takes a village to raise a child. But what happens when that “village” includes some of the world’s most formidable warriors?

Eric Davis is a decorated former Navy SEAL and father of four children who he parented using exactly the same principles. He practices parenthood with the patience and precision of an elite sniper. Every underlying factor is addressed. Every action serves a purpose.

In Raising Men he chose to focus on raising boys to become men because, he says, fathers have become more and more absent from parenting since the Industrial Revolution. He posits that tradition, heritage, and “the art of manhood” are no longer passed down from father to son. To overcome that, today’s fathers must not only teach their sons to become men but must also become men themselves.

If you want to be a better father and form an unbreakable bond with your child, this Blink to Eric Davis’s Raising Men will teach you to parent using the Navy SEAL principles of courage, respect, and perseverance.

Are you ready to find out how? Then let’s gear up!

Monitor your child’s progress and make them a team player.

Parenting and SEAL training may seem worlds apart but bear with us. Both require mental and physical endurance and a never-quit attitude. It’s all about survival at first. But in the long run, parents and SEALs want to build strong teams. And, just like in SEAL training, parenting involves teaching children to cooperate with others and take responsibility for their actions.

The connections between SEALs and parenting run even deeper. For instance, when SEAL divers are submerged, they rely on their teammates to keep them safe. Similarly, in the early stages of parenting, parents must be their child's dive buddy. But their child picks new dive partners as they mature.

So parents need to keep watch and ensure their child is “tethering” with good people. After all, parenting is more than just setting up playdates and watching from afar. So whether you’re coparenting or going it alone, you must be their dive instructor.

Are you ready to take the plunge? Okay, here’s a step-by-step plan for developing a strong team player.

First, focus on details. Pay close attention to your child's behavior and attitudes. Correct them as needed, and reward them when they make good choices.

Second, stamp out arrogance. Teach your child the value of humility and the dangers of conceit. Help them understand that making mistakes is a normal part of growing up.

Third, stay vigilant. Keep track of your child's activities, friends, and hobbies. Ensure they’re making sound decisions and staying safe.

Fourth, adapt. Adjust your parenting methods to meet your child's changing needs. Give them advice and support as they navigate the complexities of their surroundings.

Parenting can be tough, but you can make it easier. So start by building a strong and confident team.

In the next section, we’ll cover how to lead your family like a Navy SEAL.

Show your child the way.

Fathers bear a great responsibility. Their children watch their every move and look to them for guidance. So, how can you become the leader your family needs? The Navy SEALs can certainly teach you a thing or two. But don’t worry; you don’t have to be a Navy SEAL to use these tactics in your parenting.

First and foremost, be present for your family, and provide necessary guidance and support.

Be a purposeful parent.

If you’re tired of traditional parenting methods that don’t produce positive changes, it might be time to try something new. Navy SEAL parenting prefers effective results over going through the motions.

In the last section, we discussed how being a good leader can make you an effective parent. But what happens when your child misbehaves? What can you do? How can you maintain discipline and encourage positive behavior?

Consistent life coaching will earn your child's respect.

Shrewd Navy SEALs say, "it’s easier to keep up than it is to catch up."

Falling behind in SEAL training means becoming a member of the Goon Squad – and that means you’re subjected to more intense exercise until you’re drained. You do learn a lesson from it, though: you’re always capable of more.

Use strategic response drills to solve problems quickly.

In high-pressure situations, decisive action makes all the difference. This is especially true in military operations, where every second counts.

Take the time a French special forces team failed to intercept a cargo ship smuggling contraband out of Iraq. When the opportunity to intercept came again, the US Navy SEAL team was "on time and on target." They boarded the smugglers’ ship and successfully diverted it back into international waters just before it could sail into Iranian waters. Fast action equals success.

Encourage your child to master their mental discipline.

Do you sometimes struggle to stay pumped when the going gets rough? Don't worry. You’re not alone in this boat. We’ve all had times when troubles get the best of us. The good news is that you can boost your mental toughness. Everyone has more control over their responses than they think. Not only that, recognizing this can transform your parenting.

The power to control your thoughts, feelings, and actions is known as self-regulation. Understanding self-regulation is the first step toward mastering mental discipline. For example, the US Navy understands that feelings can sometimes overwhelm candidates. So it trains prospects how to self-regulate to prepare themselves for dangerous situations.

Final Summary

To be an inspiring and effective father, you should prioritize active parenting and lead by example. Maintain consistency and responsiveness to your child's needs while encouraging physical activity. Remember that even if you’ve lost touch with your child, you can still reconnect and rebuild your team. Fathers never quit.

By embracing Navy SEAL parenting principles, you can build a strong foundation that promotes growth, love, and respect. With this approach, you can reclaim your role as father and inspire your child to make positive life choices.

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What is Raising Men about?

Raising Men (2016) is a powerful exploration of life-changing military lessons, emphasizing the importance of boldness, accountability, and bonding. Via real-life stories from Navy SEALs, this captivating narrative will teach you how to build strong relationships with your son and raise him with discipline, leadership, and grace.

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Raising Men (2017) explores the challenges and rewards of raising honorable, resilient boys in today's society. Here's why this book is definitely worth reading:

By sharing his own personal experiences and insights, Eric Davis provides practical wisdom that parents can apply to navigate the complexities of parenting.
With its emphasis on character development and equipping boys with the necessary skills for a successful future, the book offers a refreshing perspective on modern-day parenting.
Through the exploration of topics such as discipline, communication, and integrity, Raising Men is a thought-provoking read that challenges conventional beliefs and encourages personal growth.

Who should read Raising Men?

Expectant fathers
Distant Dads
Military patriarchs

About the Author

Eric Davis is a former US Navy SEAL, decorated veteran, and author. Recognized as one of the finest sniper instructors in the US military, he founded Average Frog, a company that teaches the performance principles of Navy SEALs.

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