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Robert Reffkin

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No One Succeeds Alone is a motivational guide by Robert Reffkin, sharing personal stories and lessons learned. It emphasizes the critical role of community, mentors, and perseverance in achieving professional and personal success.

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    A fractured start and a mother who built everything anyway

    When Ruth, an Israeli immigrant, called her parents after the birth of her son with an African American man from Louisiana, they had just one question.

    "What is he?"

    "He is Jewish," Ruth replied, "and Black."

    They hung up the phone and disowned them both.

    From that day until their deaths, Reffkin never met his maternal grandparents and never exchanged a single word with them. His father, meanwhile, left when he was still a baby. From the very beginning, the world had sent a clear message: he just didn’t belong.

    But Ruth gave him a different message. Whatever anyone else thought, the two of them had each other. When Reffkin was with his mother, he felt loved, supported, and secure.

    As he got older, that feeling of not fitting in only deepened. He was the only Black kid at his synagogue, but he didn’t sit easily with the Black kids at school either – he was mixed, and Jewish. Teachers singled him out. Administrators came down hard on him. The more out of place he felt, the more he craved something real: a genuine sense of belonging in the wider world.

    That craving shaped much of his life. It pushed him to New York City. It fueled his ambition. And years later, it inspired the mission behind Compass: helping people find their place in the world.

    To understand where that drive came from, though, you have to understand Ruth.

    Ruth grew up under a strict, authoritarian father who saw her independence and curiosity as a problem to be stamped out. When she showed an interest in building a radio as a young girl, he raged at her for pursuing what he considered a boy’s passion. He punished her for her relationships, refused to support her marriage, and told her she’d end up in the gutter when she wanted to move to California. She went anyway.

    In California, Ruth built a preschool, managed teams, started businesses, and reinvented herself again and again. She raised Reffkin alone, without family support or financial safety nets, and when she saw he needed more than she could provide on her own, she tracked down every nonprofit, mentor, and scholarship program she could find to give him the chances she couldn’t afford herself. Today, in her seventies, she's a real estate agent at Compass – still building, still working, still finding ways to create opportunity.

    To Reffkin, his mother embodies what entrepreneurship really means: resourcefulness, resilience, and a refusal to accept that something can't be done. She gave him more than a childhood. She gave him a blueprint for how to build a life.

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    What is No One Succeeds Alone about?

    No One Succeeds Alone (2021) traces the life of Compass CEO Robert Reffkin, from a bi-racial kid raised by a single immigrant mother to founder of a multibillion-dollar company. Drawing on his story, it distills eight principles of entrepreneurship that you can put into practice today. It makes the case that talent and hard work alone are never enough – the mentors and collaborators around you deserve as much credit as the work you put in yourself.

    Who should read No One Succeeds Alone?

    • Aspiring entrepreneurs seeking practical guidance and inspiration
    • Professionals rebuilding after setbacks who dream of more
    • First generation strivers from underrepresented backgrounds

    About the Author

    Robert Reffkin is the founder and CEO of Compass, the largest independent real estate brokerage in the United States. A graduate of Columbia University, he began his career at McKinsey, Lazard, and Goldman Sachs before founding America Needs You, a nonprofit that supports first-generation college students living below the poverty line. He is also a regular contributor to Inman News. No One Succeeds Alone is his first book.

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