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Blink 3 of 8 - The 5 AM Club
by Robin Sharma
Reflections on Living a Long, Contented Life
The View from Ninety offers a reflective narrative on life’s journey, as Charles Handy shares insights on aging, success, and legacy. He blends personal anecdotes to evoke contemplation on the value of wisdom gained through decades.
Handy’s friend Raji once emailed him from Mumbai to share a new saying: “Sometimes the wrong train leads you to the right destination.” Handy knew exactly what this meant from his own life. Fresh out of university, he’d joined Shell International to become a wealthy oil executive. His mother drove him to the airport. As he left, looking miserable and anxious, she rolled down the window: “Never mind, dear, it’ll all be great material for your books.” He protested – he was going to get rich, not write books.
But, in Borneo, managing Shell’s marketing operations, he failed badly. So he bought American management books to study and found them appalling. He rewrote the theories in clear English, illustrated with stories from his disasters. His book sold a million copies. Publishers wanted more. He’d boarded a train to Shell but arrived at Penguin and the BBC, doing what he loved. His advice to his grandchildren? Experiment in your twenties before mortgages trap you. Take the wrong trains – they might lead somewhere better.
This raises a deeper question: When the train finally stops, how do you measure whether you’ve succeeded? His teenage grandchildren had clear answers – money for yachts and dream houses. So he took them to see their grandmother’s grave. Someone had planted snowdrops when she died. The flowers had spread across the cemetery, covering the graves of friends and neighbors.
His wife would spend an hour on the phone keeping in touch with friends. She’d invite people to Sunday lunch and pour them good wine with love. She called him her best friend once – he was her “chief snowdrop.” Success measured in relationships means being surrounded by flowers when you die.
When it comes to getting anywhere meaningful, life requires what Handy calls “decent doubt.” Oliver Cromwell once wrote to stubborn Scottish elders, “I beseech you, in the bowels of Christ, think it possible that you may be mistaken.” Doubt opens the door to learning. Without questioning your own certainty, you stay stuck.
Another essential skill? Listening. Theatre director Declan Donnellan told Handy that great directing means paying attention – getting inside someone else’s world instead of telling them what to do. Studies show excessive talking diminishes your ability to listen. Both speaker and listener gain when you truly pay attention.
Finally, comfort with uncertainty matters. When Handy faced difficult exams at Oxford, his tutor gave unexpected advice: go lie on your back and listen to cricket. The boring game would clear his mind completely. Handy did exactly that. He walked into the exam hall feeling he knew nothing, and that was fine. He passed, thanks to what came from an empty mind rather than from crammed-in facts.
Wrong trains, relationships over wealth, doubt instead of certainty, listening over talking, comfort with not knowing – none of these is a weakness. They’re actually how you find your way.
The View from Ninety (2025) is a collection of final essays written while facing mortality after a stroke. It distills nine decades of experience into reflections on what truly matters – distinguishing the important from merely serious, measuring success in relationships rather than wealth, and finding peace with the natural cycle of life and death. It offers practical lessons for living contentedly when all pretense falls away and only essentials remain.
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Blink 3 of 8 - The 5 AM Club
by Robin Sharma