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David DeSteno and Piercarlo Valdesolo

Surprising Truths about the Liar, Cheat, Sinner (and Saint) Lurking in All of Us

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Out of Character by David DeSteno and Piercarlo Valdesolo dissects what we think we know about character and reveals that some of our beliefs are actually misconceptions. The book uses scientific evidence to show that moral character is flexible and can be manipulated by environmental factors, thus offering insights on how people can improve their characters.

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    Character is the product of dueling forces in every moment.

    Have you ever wondered about the origins of the word character? Actually it comes from an ancient Greek word that referred to the indelible marks pressed into coins to differentiate them. However, the nature of character is anything but fixed and eternal. So when people act “out of character” they are often just expressing a part of their true nature.

    In fact, character is really quite flexible and it’s common for people to behave differently at different times since each of us contains both vice and virtue. This divide is classically depicted as a battle of opposing ideas within each of our minds: the proverbial angel and devil on our shoulders. These forces are seen as guiding our actions and early on each person is swayed more by one than the other.

    However, the duality of angel and devil is problematic for three reasons:

    First, it’s too simplistic to think that each of us is guided by only a good and a bad force. In reality, the powers that influence our behaviors are much more nuanced.

    Second, it’s not possible to be certain about which side to trust.

    And, third, external events greatly affect our thoughts and actions, a fact that we’ll see explained in detail later on.

    So what’s a better metaphor?

    That of the ant and the grasshopper, drawn from a fable by the ancient Greek storyteller Aesop, which goes like this:

    The ant, always thinking long-term, is busy preparing for winter while the grasshopper enjoys himself, singing, playing and not worrying about winter until it arrives.

    The two mindsets symbolized in this story better describe our internal struggle because they depict the battle between immediate rewards like going to a party and long-term planning like spending the night studying. Rationally speaking, it’s the future gains that bear the greater potential. For instance, if you save money it will grow but you also have to live long enough to enjoy it. Therefore, both sides are important and both are contained within all of us.

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    What is Out of Character about?

    Out of Character (2011), introduces a more flexible idea about character that goes beyond the classic dichotomy of the saint and the sinner. These blinks use psychological experiments to demonstrate how many of the traits we consider fixed are prone to influence by outside events, often in surprising ways.

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    Out of Character delves into the fascinating subject of human behavior and explores the ways in which moral decisions are made. Here's why this book is worth reading:

    • With its engaging storytelling and thought-provoking research, this book offers a fresh perspective on the complexities of human morality.
    • By revealing the hidden forces that shape our choices, the authors provide valuable insights into our own behavior and the behavior of those around us.
    • The book presents a practical framework for understanding and influencing moral decisions, making it a valuable resource for anyone interested in ethics and human psychology.

    Who should read Out of Character?

    • Students of psychology and philosophy
    • Anyone who is interested in human behavior

    About the Author

    David DeSteno is an associate professor of psychology at Northeastern University and director of the school’s Social Emotions Lab. His work has been published in The New York Times and Scientific American.

    Piercarlo Valdesolo is an assistant professor of psychology at Claremont McKenna College. His work has appeared in The New York Times, Newsweek and many other notable publications.

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    What is the main message of Out of Character?

    The main message of Out of Character is that character is not fixed but can be developed and improved.

    How long does it take to read Out of Character?

    The reading time for Out of Character varies depending on the reader's speed, but it typically takes several hours. The Blinkist summary can be read in approximately 15 minutes.

    Is Out of Character a good book? Is it worth reading?

    Out of Character is worth reading as it offers insights into the power of change and self-improvement in shaping our character.

    Who is the author of Out of Character?

    David DeSteno and Piercarlo Valdesolo are the authors of Out of Character.

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