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Blink 3 of 8 - The 5 AM Club
by Robin Sharma
Lessons in Daring Leadership
Strong Ground delves into the power of vulnerability, courage, and connection. Brené Brown explores how embracing our imperfections can lead to stronger relationships, greater resilience, and a more fulfilling life.
Grounded confidence begins with truly knowing ourselves. That means understanding how we feel, think, and react, and cultivating the ability to pause before we respond. This doesn’t mean having all the answers, but being deeply curious about how we relate to ourselves and the world around us.
Self-awareness is the primary muscle. Developing it requires both inward sensitivity and outward support, in a coach, therapist, or trusted friend, for instance. It can be challenging to distance ourselves from our biology, biography, behavior, and backstory, so it helps to have an external presence on hand to offer some perspective.
Language plays a bigger role here than we often realize. Language doesn’t just express emotion; it can shape it. This is why it’s so important we learn to more accurately name what we’re feeling – doing so gives us a better hold on our emotions, and lessens their hold on us. For example, the next time you feel “mad,” consider whether “anguished,” “humiliated,” or “self-righteous” are more precise descriptors. Accuracy brings clarity, and clarity gives us the space to choose our next move with intention.
Metacognition – thinking about how we think – is another essential muscle. As fallible humans, we can fall victim to cognitive biases that skew our experiences of the world to align with what we expect or already believe. By noticing those patterns, we can create just enough of a pause to question their validity. And a single moment of metacognitive awareness is enough to prevent a serious misstep or open the door to a profound paradigm shift.
Mindfulness then ties it all together. The Latin root of “attention” – attendere – means “to stretch toward,” and that’s exactly what mindfulness asks us to do: to stretch toward the present moment. Whether we’re leading a high-stakes meeting, having a hard conversation with our spouse, or rumbling with a painful internal experience, the ability to remain in contact with the current reality is grounded confidence in action.
Together, these practices – self-awareness, metacognition, and mindfulness – form the core muscles that help us stay steady when our lives are in motion. They remind us that true confidence doesn’t come from knowing everything, but from being anchored enough to stay open, curious, and conscious.
Strong Ground (2025) is a guide to daring leadership and personal development in a time of unprecedented uncertainty, paradox, and change. It offers a suite of mindsets and skill sets for identifying and reconnecting with one’s strong ground, to facilitate living, loving, and leading from a place of grounded confidence.
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Blink 3 of 8 - The 5 AM Club
by Robin Sharma